• An animal defends its territory, by posturing, gnashing teeth, butting heads and growling. Push may come to shove but most animals will refrain from killing their kind. This is natural and good. The effect will have positive results. The healthier, stronger animal will take the place of the lesser, keeping the specie strong and healthy.

    Twin Rocky Mountain Goats Olympic

    Our territory is our body, our joy, love, health, prosperity and whatever small family tribe we have. Anyone who intrudes into our space with a complaint (all complaints are negative) posture or threat, we dissolve the negative with a positive action. Smile, give a hug and tell them it is OK or we could just smile, touch or pat them  lovingly, wave goodbye and leave.

    We are always in control of our circumstances because we caused them. We dress and act our part perfectly. Our posture, clothes, hair, facial expressions, symbolic colors, tattoos, mannerisms and speech patterns tell who we are and what kind of people we want in our play. By the same token others size us up to see if they want us in their play.

    The last time someone’s conversation took a negative turn, I looked straight into his eyes and said, “It is unnecessary for me to explain or defend myself. I do not like what you just said about me. This conversation is over and I am leaving.” I turned and left without allowing him to defend himself or make amends. We both left feeling negative and the delicate friendship was over.

    Sometimes it is difficult to avoid being negative because we learn the language using negative words. I wish I had said instead, “I need to finish my shopping. Nice seeing you. Thanks for telling me how you think and feel. Have a great day.” How simple and elegant. I am still working on changing the negative to a positive. 

    Now having said that, I trust everything I do or say benefits everyone, especially me. I do this automatically. My subconscious ended our relationship to preserve a joyous future for me. He did have a way of inserting negative, uncomplimentary remarks into a conversation and, I believe, he was unaware of their impact. So being positive can seem negative because of our social upbringing but trust what we do, it will bring the life we are positively training for and expect. 

    30 Responses to A POSITIVE STORY

    1. Costanzi says:

      Hi partner, I just wanted to tell you that your blog post was really useful to me. I was able to take the information that you so generously offered and apply it. I have questioned the responses of people who offend me, looking for what I did to tick them off. In some cases I did find I said something negative. Other times I think the problem is theirs but as you pointed out, I chose them. Well, they are no longer chosen. Your website post genuinely aided me and I also want to inform your committed followers how fortunate they are to have someone who tells it as it is. Many thanks once more for this wonderful blog post. I have bookmarked this on my favorite online book-marking web-site and that I suggest everyone else do the same.

      Thank you for taking the time to tell me how it is with you. We do choose people who will react in a way that we get what we were trained to expect. When you change and become positive, the negative people will fall away for you are no longer supplying what they expect. Nice how it works like that. Did you read "Shakespeare Says"? Love, Oracle Jai

    2. Hope says:

      I've been browsing online more than 3 hours today, looking for some advice to help me with my relationship that went sour. I did not find anything interesting until I found be positive now. Of course, be positive, yet we never think that. It is usually how to get back at them. It's also a very nice blog. If all blogs were as pretty and the advice as perfect, we would never leave the internet. Thanks for such a great experience and I am reading more.

      Thank you for finding my blog and commenting. Be positive is strong medicine, in fact no other medicine is required. Love, Oracle Jai

    3. Strick says:

      Hello my friend! I want to say that this post is amazing, nicely written and really shows us what we must do to have the joyous, loving life we really want. Above all we must trust ourselves. All your articles I have read thus far come up with really significant information. I will register, so I come back every time you put up a new post.

      Thanks for taking the time to comment. We are so used to negativity, it is sometimes difficult to handle the situation in a positive way. We need to remember the negative action belongs to the unfortunate one delivering it. We, however, are responsible for soliciting it, otherwise the encounter would never have happened. I did have another occasion to speak with the same man in the story. I remembered to ward off the insult by smiling and giving him a compliment. We left each other amicably. Love, Oracle Jai

    4. Marc says:

      Thank you for all your informative blogs. Where else could I get this kind of information about who we are and how we live? I have never seen anything like this. You are one of a kind. Everyone who comes here is benefited and the writing is short, to the point, funny sometimes, like talking to a real person. I notice you have lots to say to those who ask questions. That is new too. One has to read the comments as well. I really like this site. Thanks, Marc

      Thanks Marc. Love all those accolades. The message is too important to mince my words or get too technical. We must become positive in the next few years and love us and this earth so dearly, we stop using it up. It will come back, we will not. Hope you keep coming back. Love, Oracle Jai

    5. Shulk says:

      This article is so interesting, attractive, important and worth reading. It is actually relevant to my very own problem. I start speaking and out come my thoughts and not what I wanted to say. I am spending some time studying why I do that and how to stop it. At this moment I am really happy I discovered your website. Thanks. Yeah, I need to learn a better way to respond to a comment I don’t approve of. If I remember to smile and keep smiling an appropriate comment will have time to form.

      Yes and if all you can do is smile that is a very good response. A smile makes everyone smile too. Thanks for the comment. Love, Oracle Jai

    6. Evangeline Alleshouse says:

      You are right. I have spoiled many nice times by saying the wrong thing and I did not want to. It is like a daemon gets inside of me. Usually the other person says something just to irritate me and I jump on it. I yell at my kids and I do not want to. I am really glad I found your site. You touch on everything. I want to change but I get jumpy and lose control. What can I do?

      Well, for one thing read my posts. You know your trainers designed you and you had no say in the matter. If you want different results, then you have to work it. When my children were in the first and second grades, I just adored them. They would come into the kitchen and I would smile and out of my mouth would come negative complaints. I was shocked. It kept happening, so I called my mother. She told me to find a zen rock and do active imagination. It is like meditation only there is an interaction between the conscious ego and the subconscious one. This would be my first time trying it and I was desperate.

      We lived on the side of a mountain, so I climbed up, found a Zen rock, sat down and closed my eyes. When I was deeply relaxed, I asked why I was being so mean to my daughters? I waited… and suddenly there were all sorts of voices, presumably to tell me the answer. I was so startled, I got up, went down the mountain and called my mother. She laughed and told me to go back to the Zen rock and this time insist on one voice at a time.

      I did and the answer I heard was that I was jealous of my daughters. They were loved, cherished, had a wonderful home, the best of schools and could be as they wanted to be. I felt confined, responsible, trying to be an adult, with many things to do. They were free and I was chained. Of course that was an attitude that needed changing for life was not like this at all.

      As I walked down the mountain, a weight lifted off and disappeared. I have done this ever since, I simply call it meditation but in telling the story, I know I can call it active imagination. Thanks for asking about a problem everyone has. We all seem to sabotage our intentions. I will write a post on this. Love, Oracle Jai


    7. Rebbeca says:

      I do accept, as true, all of the concepts you have introduced in your post. They are very convincing and your solution of loving ourselves, smiling and laughing will certainly work. Still, the posts are very brief for newbies. Could you please prolong them a little next time? Thank you for A Positive Story because it is OK if we flub up while we are changing and, I guess, before this paradise and love is automatic.

      Thanks for your comment and yes we love ourselves, no strings attached, no conditions to be met. Nothing is wrong, bad or ugly. We accept us, warts, flubs and all. Our love of ourselves, our unstoppable love will change the world. Love, Oracle Jai

    8. Lisa says:

      I come to your site often because I love your way of looking at the world and the state we are in. Also it is very beautiful. Most of the pictures are of the beauty of nature and what we have built can not compare. I truly thank you for your content. This article peaked my interest and it does show us we can smile and say something nice, so the other person, even though a jerk or rude, will be better for a while and the encounter will be more pleasant. Even if this does not work for the jerk, we will feel better, knowing we did not piss someone off.

      Thank you for your comment. It is funny, since we were taught to be pleasant or say nothing at all. I am saying be pleasant all the time, for yourself. Others are responsible for themselves and we want a smiling, happy, peaceful, loving life so, of course, pissing someone off fails to help our attitude. Well, we learned to hit back and now we learn to smile and leave. Love, Oracle Jai

    9. Clarence says:

      Great response to this question with firm arguments for us to change the way we are to get a life of joy, health and cash. Clarence

      It is important to think positive in every moment. We can get lost in some negative comments and respond negatively. I did want to stop the discussion, which I did, but after a few more years of practice I am more positive, at least I think I am. It takes dedication and practice. Love, Oracle Jai

      • Barbara says:

        I just wanted to thank you yet again for your amazing web-site. It really is full of useful tips for those who are definitely interested in having a more fulfilling, happier, healthier, richer life. You really are absolutely sweet as well as thoughtful of others. Reading the blog posts is a great delight for me. Ben and I discuss your points and use them with each other and at work or with our friends. We have fun telling each other what success we had, so you can see, we put your tips to a very good use.

        Thanks for taking the time to tell me that you are getting something beneficial from reading my blog. I am especially glad to hear that you are taking some of my suggestions and making them apart of your life. I used to sit on my little girl's bed just before turning out the light and ask what wonderful things she did that day. I remember being so impressed one evening when my first grader said she stopped two older boys pushing a younger boy around on the playground. She told them to pick on someone their own size. I wonder where she got that? Anyway the older boys left. What a brave little girl. We can all be as brave as that little six year old girl. Love, Oracle Jai

    10. Laverne Carriger says:

      I just read this. It was very enlightening. I got it that sometimes we are rude to get away from harm. I will tell myself from now on that I am great and have a joyous, healthy, rich life. I appreciate you taking the time and effort to put this informative article together. I love reading the comments as well as leaving them. My life is worth every second I give it. Laverne

      Thanks for reading and commenting. It helps to get involve and discuss your new life with yourself all the time, strengthening your resolve to have the life you desire. Love, Oracle Jai

    11. Dwight says:

      Hi my friend! I want to say that this article is awesome, nicely written and includes significant information. I would like to see more posts like this. Dwight

      Thanks for your comment, Dwight. What in particular would you like me to talk about? Love, Oracle J.

    12. Michael says:

      Your style is unique, when most are just copycats. Your site is beautiful, with natural, sounds that bring a sigh and a smile. Your writing is entertaining and the content is the most important content in the entire internet. It is how each of us can save ourselves and in doing so, the world. Amazing. Thank you for posting your wisdom and knowledge.

      Thank you for taking the time to say how you feel about the site. Love, Oracle Jai

    13. Malcom says:

      I just had to tell you that your posts are very well written. I start on the home page and I am hooked. Sometimes it is difficult to remember to be positive especially when the other person wants to argue. Now that I am aware that people do this because that is how they were trained, I can be more sympathetic and refuse to take the bait. Well written!

      Thank you for your comment. I am glad to hear that some people will let the insult or negative remark pass pleasantly. The new training will be feeling so great that a negative thought just would not occur. Love, Oracle Jai

    14. Asia says:

      I just want to say I absolutely loved you're blog. You definitely have fantastic stories. Even just stopping a negative comment and leaving is brave and smart. Most people get in a combative mood and strike back and an argument ensues. Thanks for sharing with us your wisdom.

      Thanks very much and I did especially love this story, showing how our world could be simply joyous, if we were trained to see it as positive and beneficial. In this new world, if we make it so, we protect ourselves by a shield of love, trusting us to benefit everything. Love, Oracle Jai

    15. George says:

      I am always looking for more information about people. I love real stories. And you have many. I think it helps to understand your point, a whole lot better than without it. Fantastic issues on this blog. All very important to secure a great life. I think it is great that you recommend that we love, cherish and take care of ourselves first. Everyone else has it wrong. We do need to desire a happy, loving, healthy life because then we will make it so and others will benefit also. Thanks for the entire blog.

      Thank you for your comments and suggestion. We are just a bunch of stories. Love, Oracle Jai

    16. frammadiz says:

      There's noticeably a bundle to understand about making our lives pleasant and worthwhile. I assume you produced the life you want by trusting yourself to make that life. I would like to understand exactly how we make our lives happy with all the unhappy, miserable people doing really bad things to each other in this world.

      You have spent quite a bit of time on my site and we thank you for that. We have always trusted ourselves without being aware of it. However, we have trusted us to deliver the results we expect from our beliefs, which are destroying the world and all life. If we want different results in our lives, we have to change our beliefs which control our perceptions. This may take a while, but it is worth it. It starts with loving us unconditionally. Only then can we love each other and the earth itself. Love, Oracle J.

    17. Michael says:

      Greetings! Very helpful advice in this particular post! It's the little changes that will make the greatest changes. Many thanks for sharing!

      Thanks for your helpful comment and may it bring the greatest change. Love, oracle Jai

    18. żaluzje says:

      Howdy, I read your blog often and I own a similar one. I was just wondering if you get a lot of spam feedback? If so how do you stop it, any plugin or anything you can recommend? I get so much lately it's driving me crazy, so any assistance is very much appreciated. żaluzje

      There is a plugin you can get that stops it all. For that you need your readers to register or subscribe to be able to respond. As you can see, I have no problem with spam, I welcome it. My message is also for Spam. We do have a place on the left side bar to register. Love Oracle J.

    19. Marcia says:

      Ridiculous story there. What occurred after?

      Well, we actually met a few more times accidently, once in the bank and once in the grocery. On both occasions I was polite and wished him a pleasant day and both times he had something unconsciously rude and unpleasant to say. I was prepared and determined to stay happy, which I did. I know he is unaware of how he sets people off by the way people respond to him. He thinks it is their fault and I am not about to change that. Thanks for asking. Love, Oracle Jai

    20. Rodney says:

      This design is stellar! You most certainly know how to keep a reader entertained. Between your wit and your insights, I was moved to start my own life again and this time fill it with love, joy and health. We can do this and I am going to read your whole blog. There is so much here that will aid me. Great job. I really enjoyed what you had to say, and more than that, how you presented it. Too cool!

      Thank you for a stellar comment. We need them all the time. Remember to look in the mirror often and compliment yourself on everything. Remind yourself that you are perfect, great and everything you do benefits us all including the whole planet. Then trust yourself to free you of past burdens and negative beliefs and move into your new life. Love, Oracle Jai

    21. Claire says:

      I was surprised with the amount of research and experience you had to have to make this whole blog. This first post is so right on and the experience is something we all have had. However, you changed, so the next time the experience was better for both you you. Wonderful process! Inspiring!

      A wonderful and inspiring comment. I hope everyone is as enthusiastic about becoming positive. Love, Oracle Jai

    22. Elmo says:

      Just wish to say your article is as amazing. The clarity for your submit shows you know what you are talking about. It is easier to get a message when it is a personal story. I can relate. I also love the pictures of nature and the sounds. Thanks one million and please keep up the enjoyable work.

      Thanks another million for taking the time to tell us your opinion. Love, Oracle Jai

    23. Walter says:

      Hi, all is going nicely here and of course every one is sharing your posts, online and offline. Your truth and wisdom must spread, like a wildfire in California and never stop. Burn out the old, make way for the new, positive growth. This is really an excellent blog; keep it coming.

      Thanks for the nice comment and sharing your knowledge and new, positive behavior. It is useful for others and they can see the positive changes in your behavior. Great stuff!! Love, Oracle Jai

    24. Linter says:

      I hope you never stop! This is one of the best blogs I've ever read. You've got some mad skill here. I just hope that you keep your style because you're definitely one of the coolest bloggers out there. I decided to stop jumping around and start at the top. Those encounters with unpleasant people do keep happening. I appreciate your story. A quick pleasant remark and then leave. Please keep it up because the internet needs someone like you spreading the word.…

      I hope you keep coming back to read it all and I know there is a lot here. Thanks for the compliment. Smile and light up everyone's day. Love, Oracle Jai

    25. krzyże says:

      I constantly investigate online for posts that can help me. Thank you! krzyże

      Me too and thank you for dropping by. Love, Oracle J.

    26. michael says:

      I came across your blog and decided to have a very quick study, not what I usually do, but you have a great blog. Wonderful to see a site that has  interesting and important stuff about life and the comments are not spam. Everything actually makes some sense. Certainly this post does. Smiling keeps us happy and it helps others as well. I was taught that and then living in this world, I forgot about being nice! Awesome blog, thanks, Michael

      Thanks Michael. I am glad you find the posts make sense and the people who choose to read and comment, appear to be intelligent and discerning people. Please come back. Love, Oracle Jai

      • Simone says:

        I really wanted to jot down a simple remark to thank you for those remarkable secrets you are posting here. My time consuming internet search has, at the end of the day, been rewarded with brilliant insights here on your blog. I will share this site with my friends. I am grateful to be so lucky to live in a decent community with many lovely, interesting and knowledgeable professionals. I feel really fortunate to have discovered your website page and look forward to tons of more cool moments reading here. Thanks once again for all the details.

        Thanks so much for taking the time to comment and compliment and hopefully your community will join in the effort to save the world. Love, Oracle Jai

    27. Corey Yoshino says:

      I really enjoyed your positive story. It is difficult to say nice goodbyes to someone you hate. I am inspired to work on it though after reading this post. Thanks for sharing your stories with us. They really help in understanding the changes you say we need to make. Corey

      Thanks Corey. You have a name I have been tempted to use for most of my life. I knew a folk song called, "Darling Corey". A great character I admired as a teenager. I waited until I was forty two to begin to change my name every time I got too serious about life. Had I started earlier I would have been Corey. Once we cherish ourselves that task gets easier and soon the negative feelings are gone rapidly and one can say goodbye pleasantly. Love, Oracle Jai

      • Adalberto says:

        You ought to take into consideration turning this web into a serious authority in this market. You obviously have a grasp of the topics everyone seems to be searching for, on this website. You might definitely even earn a buck or two off of some advertisements. Explore products that enhance perfect health for instance or recycled building materials. Only a thought, good luck in no matter you do!

        Advertising is a new concept for me in this site but you may definitely have something there. I certainly could advertise green, what ever products benefit the planet. Thanks for that great idea. Money is also nice. Love, Oracle Jai

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