• Most people on the earth suffer from parental abuse, reinforced by society, which is everyone else. We long for paradise, being free to have that happily ever after life. We search everywhere, news, magazines, TV, movies, sports, schools, church, love, sex, work, garage sales, foreign places, shrinks, councilors, computer games and doctors to find the way to lose our addictions to pain and suffering and gain peace and love.


    All we find are drugs because crimes, punishment and rewards are everywhere, even in art galleries, playgrounds and parks. Every place warns that we could be wrong, bad, ugly, to stay off the grass and  not to touch anything.  A drug induced dream is all we have to protect us from the reality we caused.

    That is all we will find because we continually act from our automatic instinctual trained program. We relish religions that blame us for Jesus’ death. He died for our sins, of which we have plenty. We are ignorant and need enlightenment. We are the slackers, stupid, disloyal, liars, cheaters, thieves, murderers and drug addicts in our lives. Telling addicts to abstain only adds flame to the burn. We are suppose to fail and we always get what we are trained to expect.

    Awareness is only the beginning but without it we are lost. Punishment, rewards, wrong, bad, fear, anger, sorrow, guilt and doubt fail to show up in nature. We make them up. It is an illusion to keep us slaves to the system. If we think it is bad now, wait till that world order takes over.   

    There is a solution that works; change our automatic response mechanism. Unfortunately the people that deal with addicts only talk or have you talk about the problem. That way they stay in business and we have to keep coming back because talking about a problem keeps the problem in existence. If we really want to be free, we have to liberate ourselves.

    We have to learn to turn on love. Smile, bigger, feel the love begin to engulf us. Talk to those peptides. Encourage them to hang on every cell. Imagine it. Be very clear. We only change our perception of reality. Others are on their own, even if they are family, except children and they can only become like us. Once we love us unconditionally and fear is unknown then we can have a child to be like us. Dr. Emotto demonstrates that our joy and love changes the water in everything near us to joy. Listening to a transformational CD spoken in the Alpha/Theta state, every day also helps. We will become paradise and might even save the world.

    A Story About That

    My mother and my step father smoked. My younger brother smoked and taught me how to smoke when I was 16. Married a man who smoked when I was 19. This was in the fifties and everyone smoked. We watched movies thru a blue haze of smoke. I quit several times for a few months and went back. I had several reasons, none would have held up in court. However the day my husband had his fatal heart attack at the age of 47, leaving me with two teenage daughters, a mortgage, $600.00 in the bank and no income, I quit cold turkey and never wanted a cigarette again.

    That is a pretty drastic solution for quitting smoking. Maybe that is what it takes. Anyway why worry about it? We all raise kids who want the acceptance denied them as a child. Getting high is even better. Reality is about how the rich and powerful are destroying the world to supply more to the rest of us idiots, who continually make more customers for their products that make us sick. No one today deserves to live unless they become positive and leave our sick civilizations behind to die from their own devices. If you become positive, joyous, healthy and prosperous, you will lose your addictions and come face to face with reality. Oh My. Then what? I and a few others made it. There is always that possibility.

    33 Responses to ADDICTIONS

    1. Aubrey Schaal says:

      Its as if you read my thoughts! You seem to understand a lot about addictions. Are you a councilor? It is certainly easy to read your material and it is entertaining as well. I feel that you simply can write about anything and drive the message home. This is fantastic blog. An excellent read. I will certainly be back often to read them all.

      Thanks for your comment and for coming back to read them all. We need 10% of the population in agreement to love ourselves and the natural planet, leave civilization and its dedication to kill everything. Love, Oracle Jai

    2. armour says:

      People are addicted to being rich and making sure we know it. The difference between a diamond and crystal, cut identically, is difficult to tell for most people. So why pay a hundred thousand dollars for a stone when you can have the same beauty for $20.00? If the painting is beautiful, why does it have to be famous, old and cost millions? Civilization is crazy and dangerous as you point out in all your posts. We must live in a paradise of our own joy. Thanks for this blog of enlightenment.

      Thank you for your enlightening comment. Paradise is feeling good, being healthy, happy, in love and prosperous, having life be a great, safe adventure. The only way for that to happen is to love yourself without conditions and live in nature with less people. Love, Oracle Jai



    3. Surge says:

      One of the more impressive blogs I've seen. Thanks so much for keeping the internet classy for a change. You've got style, class, bravado. I mean it. Please keep it up because without you, the internet is definitely lacking in intelligence. I wish we were addicted to being intelligent, loving and having fun.

      Hahahahaha. Cute. Without you there would be little humor. I wish we were too. Love, Oracle Jai

    4. Pal says:

      This blog has the most and longest responses I have ever seen on a blog. I noticed the comments are getting longer and offer more thoughts. We have a better understanding of the topic. They say one man's medicine is another man's poison. Is this true? I am enjoying the bright day and this article is the reason I am in such a good mood. I am really happy I discovered your website.Thanks, Pal.

      You are welcome and thanks or the comment. About the medicine, it is all poison, unless it is natural and has not been cooked or extracted chemically. Metaphorically speaking, to each his own. Love, Oracle Jai

    5. Max says:

      Love the sound, love the song. Love nature and the natural sounds. You have it right. We need to return to our roots in the soil, air and water.

      Love yourself so you can love it all. Love, Oracle Jai

    6. Shayla says:

      You are so right. We are addicted to much more than drugs, sugar in all its forms is so unhealthy. We need to get rid of anything which might distract us from our diet so we get into the habit of loving food good for us. Sleep helps reduce stress and encourages proper body functions. Your suggestion of listening to your Pathway is a great way to fall asleep. By the way it is not playing on my computer. Is there a problem?

      Thanks for your addition to the post. Yes I updated something and the recordings stopped playing. I need an expert to fix it and so far I have been unable to find one. If you know of someone, please have them contact me. Thanks, Oracle Jai

    7. Judy says:

      Dear friend – that's a familiar story and I remember you, that husband and that mother. Love you. Judy

      Hey Jude, we had a lot of really great times together. We go so far back, I think we have been together forever. That was way back in the past but with a glad heart even the trying times seem great. I am right in saying, once we embrace unconditional love for us, the past gets rosy. Thanks for coming to the site, reading and commenting. Love you forever,  Oracle Jai

    8. Gladis says:

      Hi would you mind letting me know which web host you're working with? I've loaded your blog in 3 different internet browsers and I must say this blog loads a lot faster then most. Can you suggest a good web hosting provider at a reasonable price? Thanks a lot, I appreciate it!| Gladis

      We use BlueHost. Thanks for coming by. Love, Oracle J.

    9. クロエ アウトレット says:

      Great amazing things here. I think we all are addicted to something that seems to give us comfort. Some of us have more addictions that others. I am very satisfied to look up your posts. Thanks so much and I want to know when you put up another. Will you kindly drop me a mail? クロエ アウトレット

       Thanks for coming and leaving a comment. We automatically allert subscribers/those who register on the side bar when I publish a new blog. Please sign up. Thanks, Love, Oracle Jai

    10. lunette carrera says:

      Agree with this statement. We all punish ourselves from eating fast foods, sodas, alcohol, being with people who hurt our feelings, to working for a lousy job that pays very little. We do need to change. Thanks

      Thanks for commenting and I hope you come back to read and comment more. Love, Oracle Jai

    11. click says:

      Looking forward to reading more. Great new post. Extraordinary.

      Thank you, Click. Keep coming, we love your compliments. Love, Oracle Jai

    12. Anonymous says:

      Hey, thanks for the blog article. I really thank you!

      You are welcome, Love Oracle Jai

    13. chantix says:

      There are many ways to stop addictions and one of the worst addictions is smoking. Everyone knows how bad this is for them, yet they continue, being helpless to quit. Why is that? Even the packages of cigarettes have a health warning. There are patches, hypnosis, fake cigarettes, counselors and more. You say they want to die. They want to suffer the agony smoking causes. They tell me no but can not quit or they do not care. Puzzled.

      I could use a better story about getting rid of addictions. In fact due to your wonderful comment I wrote about my own smoking addiction. It will explain why it is hard to quit addictions that seem to give us a substitute for reality. Anything will do. Love, Oracle Jai

    14. Gale Coskey says:

      I see you have changed the post. It reads better but I did think living in a commune where the abuse was to have kinky sex out in the open should have been left in. Gale

      Thanks for commenting Gale, I was feeling pretty silly when I first wrote the post. I am a bit more sensible now. Oops, perhaps it is time to change my name. When I find myself too serious, I change it. I think I just might list my names on who is Oracle Jai on the Tarot page. Hmmm. Love, Oracle Jai

    15. Gene says:

      After looking at a few of the blog articles on your web page, I truly appreciate your technique of blogging. I saved Addictions, as a favorite in  my bookmarks and will be checking back in the near future. Please check out my web site too and let me know what you think. Gene

      Thanks, Addictions is a good one because we think we are addicted to alcohol, drugs, bad girls, key lime pie, etc. We are unfamiliar with the big daddy addiction of them all, which ruins our chances at the kind of life we want. It is a very important post. Love Oracle Jai

    16. Rhys says:

      This info is worth everyone's attention. We are all addicted to something that is why we keep repeating the same stuff. How can I find out more about specific addictions?

      Thanks for the comment. We are addicted to having the results we get. If we want to change the negative results, we must program ourselves to get positive results. Let us say we want to feel high, free, happy and in love with everything and the only way we can feel that way is to take a drug. Unfortunately the results of the drug, when it wares off, is feeling terrible and we hate ourselves and feel miserable. The results are actually a punishment and we have behaved perfectly for this is how we were trained to feel about ourselves.

      So we retrain ourselves to love us, compliment us when we do nice things for us and feel happy and healthy without drugs. Never, ever, say we are bad or wrong. There is nothing to forgive because we are behaving exactly as we were trained. Eventually we will love and cherish ourselves and the negative punishments will disappear. Most of us who abuse ourselves, also hate our trainers, usually parents for being such terrible people and think they will suffer when we suffer. That is not so. They only suffer because that is how they were trained. Read the post, We Are Perfect. Love, Oracle Jai

    17. Cierra says:

      Thanks for sharing your thoughts on drug addicts. I find it hard to believe that we cause our addictions. Surely our parents do with their lack of love and caring.

      The deal is to drop the idea of fault and blame, punishments and rewards. Get on with love, joy, happiness, health, being safe and prosper. After all your parents were also victims. No one raises children in unconditional love in the whole damned world. We have seen to that!! Now the only way to stop the insanity we have created in society is to love ourselves first.

      If we do not like our parents, we stay away from them. Forgiveness is out, everything is the perfect result of what caused it. We are the perfect result of what our parents caused. This life is yours. It is about you. Make it a loving, healthy, joyous, safe and prosperous life in paradise. Love, Oracle Jai


    18. Axtell says:

      Wow, great article.Really looking forward to reading more.

      Thank you, news for your compliment. Love, Oracle Jai

    19. Thenrydaree says:

      Good site

      Good comment, Love, Oracle J.

    20. Cayce says:

      Hello – I must say, I'm impressed with your site. I had no trouble navigating through all the tabs and information was very easy to access. I found Addictions right away and was very interested. Pretty awesome information that we cause, control and remove our addictions all by ourselves. If we remove them can we do it without any pain or withdrawal symptoms? . Would appreciate it if you add forums or something, It would be a perfect way for your clients to interact. Great job

      I am impressed with your comment. Indian Gurus train to take harmful, addictive drugs without any effect whatsoever. The drug goes thru their body and affects nothing. We can all do this and it is simple and easy. All it takes is a belief that we are totally loved and keep us safe from being harmed in any way, shape or form.

      However we are addicted to our automatic negative beliefs and getting the same negative results over and over until we die. If we want to stop our addictions painlessly, then we believe we are perfect and we become our loving parents that cherish us. Our addictions will painlessly disappear for they are harmful and we love us too much to continue to harm us. Love, Oracle Jai

    21. depression says:

      Very Interesting! Thanks, depression

      Well, you came to the right place with a name like that!!!. Hope it helps your condition, Love, Oracle Jai

    22. Bolles says:

      I have been looking for remedies for addictions for hours now and none came even close to what you say. Why do they all have it so complicated and unhelpful, wrong even? And none of the articles are as interesting as yours. In my opinion, if all web owners and bloggers made good content as you did, the internet will be much more useful than ever before.

      Once we love and cherish ourselves, we take care to eat only nutritious food, smile, laugh and make friends with people like us. We live in nature, near a small community. Daily we trust ourselves to give us the very best life. We do and go according to our new healthy instincts and manifest what we desire. We live in paradise and frequently communicate/meditate with our cells that know everything. We prosper and abundance abounds.

      It is personal and avoid those who prefer to remain addicted, even if they are those you think you love or are responsible for. It is not so.  Love, Oracle Jai

    23. Bamba says:

      Pretty! This is really wonderful post. Thank you for providing these details about addictions. I guess we are addicted to the way we live, even if it is bad, wrong and we want more of everything. We know a better way but do not take it. What is wrong with us? How can I love me when no one else does?

      Well, I admit, it is difficult and can be a very long process, years, in fact, but worth it, no matter how old you are. I had a lot of help before I started by having parents that were kind, brave and intelligent. I started without fear and stayed that way all my life. Fear is a huge killer of having fun and love in one's life. I also loved my little brother unconditionally, so I knew what that felt like.

      It is all here in my blogs. You are perfect the way you were trained to be. It is a matter of total commitment to have a great life. We start by smiling, laughing and immediately change every negative thought in our head to a positive one, even if it seems like a lie. Luck has nothing to do with it. Work at it has everything to do with it. Love, Oracle Jai

    24. Merante says:

      Your current positions continually have got a lot of really up to date info. Where do you come up with this? Just saying you are very creative. Thanks again

      Thanks for asking. The information I used was from 40 to 50 years ago but has remained valid. Now we know how really dangerous drugs are for depressed, bi-polar, schizophrenic, etc. people. We need to treat the symptom, lack of love for ourselves brought about because there was only punishment in our childhood environment. Once we love ourselves and turn the negative into a positive, we will have the life we want.

      Shrinks and other kinds of councilors, doctors, neighbors etc. do not understand our symbolic language nor are they willing to look beyond drugs and regurgitating the past because neither work so everyone stays in business. The truth has always been there but we are a civilization of pain, suffering and spending money to stay the same. Well isn't that what the medical profession is all about? We love giving advice when we haven't a clue. Love, Oracle Jai  

    25. Cheryle says:

      Excellent post. I check in constantly because I am inspired! Everything I read is useful. Addictions caught me today and I must say we are addicted to our way of life so much so, it is rare to find anyone who wants to change even though their life is horrible. Extremely useful information, I love this site. We all need this information and do not know how to find it. I was just lucky, I guess. Thanks and best of luck.

      When you are in contact with your subconscious cells, who know everything including the future you are creating right now, you just go where you will find what will give you what you need to have a fantastic life of joy, health, love and live in abundance. Love, Oracle Jai

    26. Arche says:

      You have exceptional ideas here but I would really like to touch upon being overweight. How can we accept that when we know it is dangerous to our health. I had a weight problem and could not look myself in the mirror without disgust and despair. Self-esteem was necessary but I had none. How can I fake my natural aversion and say I love myself like this?

      Excellent question. You have been trained to be disgusted about weight, yours and others, so naturally you dislike yourself. That was the purpose. Your parents were disgusted people and weight was an issue, so naturally you became disappointed in you and put on weight. Could have been another addiction, had you been in a different family, like alcohol, drugs, sports, curiosity, physical deformity, red hair, anything. It is up to you to realize this and do away with it.

      Make no plans to lose weight. Weight is not the problem. Loving yourself is. Love and cherish yourself, weight, alcohol, drugs, deformity and all. When you no longer hate yourself in anyway, that problem you thought you had will have disappeared. The world will seem a very different place. Love, Oracle Jai

    27. więcej says:

      I am not that much of a online reader to be honest but your blogs are really nice, keep it up! I'll go ahead and bookmark your site to come back in the future. All the best więcej

      Thank you for commenting, Wiecei, I hope you do come back and please register, so you can get an update about the next post. Love, Oracle J.

    28. wayfair says:

      I am amazed at how your information is so beneficial. I appreciate you spending  time and effort to put this short article together. I once again find myself personally spending a significant amount of time both reading and leaving comments. But so what, it was still worthwhile! wayfair

      Thank you so much for continuing to comment and compliment. We are addicted to more than just drugs or coffee or candy. We are addicted and attached to a way of being and if that way is harmful, we must find a solution so we can have a joyous, healthy and prosperous life. Please register on the side bar to receive a notice as to when I put up a new post. Thanks, Love, Oracle J.

      • Veysel says:

        I think one of the most important factors in working with individuals to overcome their addiction is their motivation. If one is not motivated to change, then will they? I see it as our task to help encourage and/or build the individuals motivation to encourage their readiness for change and treatment.

        Thank you for your thoughts. There is only one treatment and that is to love oneself and only we, individually, can create that love. Look at what humans have done to the earth, life and each other. Why would anyone want to be a slave to such a destructive, hateful, civilization? Animals have more love and respect than us. Leave the addicts alone to their suffering and punishment. Hurrah for mom, the church and god. They won. Change yourself and let others be. Love, Oracle Jai

    29. QUALIA says:

      Hello there and thank you for your information. I've definitely picked up something new from right here. I did however experience some technical problems using this site . Anyway I'm adding this RSS to my email and can look out for a lot more of your perspective, exciting content. Make sure you update this again soon..

      Thanks for your comment. You can now register at the end of the left column and you will be alerted as to when I put up a new post. Be sure to comment on the post of your interest. Thanks, Love, Oracle J.

      • Zlatka says:

        When I think about assessment of someone with an addiction issue, my first thoughts are of physical safety, withdrawal, medical conditions, environmental factors, potential for self-harm or relapse, family history, medical and mental health history (including prescriptions), trauma history, strengths, social supports, patient's personal insight into their addiction and their readiness to change.

        Addictions are self inflicted because the users were abused as children and prefer to be punished for living in a joyous, euphoric world, than in the world we have created. Leave them alone. We are going to become extinct, if you people, who consider yourselves  normal for slaving your life away for a few people at the top, fail to change in time. It is time for you to drop all that nonsense and get to work loving yourselves unconditionally so you can love the animals, plants, air, water, all life and the earth itself unconditionally. Love, Oracle Jai

    30. Milano says:

      Thanks for the writeup. I definitely agree with what you are saying. I have been talking about addictions a lot lately with my brother so hopefully this will get him to see my point of view. Fingers crossed!

      Thanks for taking the time to tell us how you think. Addictions are attachments to anything we cannot stop doing. I recommend an addiction to love, joy, health, living safely in beauty and abundance without any substance that chemically controls this feeling of euphoria. We make it internally, so drugs are unnecessary. It is personal. Love, Oracle Jai

    31. William says:

      I am just amazed at what you have to say. Every post seems to have a twist to it that is new to me. It is nearly impossible to find a site this beautiful and intelligent on the internet. Where is your gimmick for taking money. This is all free! Unheard of!  I seriously enjoy the pictures and sounds. this is a great place to meditate on what you prescribe.

      Prescribe, I should call me Dr. Oracle Jai. Cute, and seriously it is a prescription for a healthy, joyous, prosperous, safe life. Take it. It is personal and free!!! Love, Dr. Oracle Jai

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