• We learned to be what our childhood trainers (parents and/or others) needed us to be to prove their perception of their life was true and real. If they saw their life as great, we got to be great. If they saw themselves as victims, we got to be victims that bullied them.

    Playful Polar Bear

    We practiced all the time, so that we would automatically behave as adults expected. Please understand this has nothing to do with what anyone says they want, reality or the truth. It has only to do with proving adult perceptions are right and correct. Now to have that life of playful joy, perfect health, perpetual youth and prosperity, we need to accentuate our positive illusions. 

    We stopped believing in Santa Clause and the Tooth Fairy, when told our parents actually gave us the presents at Christmas and money under our pillow when we lost a tooth. It was a sad day to let the fairy tales go but we noticed only children believed them and we were growing up.

    We were trained to believe there was danger everywhere and we would be harmed, if we failed to be careful and do as told. Any belief that prevents us from being safe, healthy, having fun, joyously exploring a great, beautiful adventure are illusions. They are made up so we will be sick and miserable doing what is expected and then fail to satisfy anyone including us. These illusions seem as real to adults as Santa, the tooth fairy and the bogeyman were to us, when we were children. 

    Adults go to doctors, lawyers, Indian Chiefs and read the newspapers instead of department stores, parades and storybooks to prove their illusions are real. Adults define the condition, sell the drugs, get something surgically removed  and neglect to tell us that it is all make believe. Placebos, natural remedies and pretend operations cure the disease just as effectively. We caused the problem and we fix it according to what we are trained to expect.  

    So boys and girls, let us accept our control, drop the adult negative stories, as easily as we dropped Santa and fairytales. From now on we fill our lives with joy, health, fun, riches, safe adventures and expect to live happily ever after.



    1. BAMNT says:

      Why don't we give this a try? I remember that song. Great song, great idea, been around a long time and people still do not get it. I got it so here is one for the count down. Perhaps I will be the one who starts us counting up. You are one up on most, keep it up and love life. Love, Oracle Jai

    2. Addrena says:

      Oh my goodness! Amazing article Oracle! Thank you so much, I love the title. It is from an old, good song, from a more positive era. I get it that it must be from our positive beliefs. We were taught to be positive as a show. How we felt or believed was to be suppressed. However, I guess you are suggesting we do that with the commitment to change our beliefs, not just a cover up to make nice-nice.  I am encountering troubles with your RSS. I don’t understand why I cannot subscribe to it. I want to follow you everywhere and read all you write.

      Thanks for that amazing comment. It is a good, old song and yes we must make our positive attitude real and true, instead of a cover up. As for the RSS I really have nothing to do with that. This blog is where you will find what I write. Those social networks may be the place to be found but I cannot fuss with it. Thanks for asking, Love, Oracle Jai

    3. Nate says:

      The media has now become our justice system. They have reduced our constitution to mere comic book status, without avengers. No hero has come forward, no Sherlock to find the criminal, no Ultraman to destroy the evil, no one who gives a damn.

      You are right. Fortunately no super hero is required. This is an inside, personal job. Just remove the negative from your mind and think small and personal. Love yourself and leave the rest of the world to the criminally insane. If you make it a big, world-wide job, we will all fail. Keep it small and personal. Love, Oracle Jai

    4. Higgen says:

      I'm thankful for the blog. Really looking forward to read more. Really Cool.

      Thanks for your compliment. Eliminate the negative and accentuate the positive. Lines from an old song. Love, Oracle Jai

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      Thank you for your compliment, Maillot. And thanks for coming back to read more. Love, Jai

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      Thanks for a comment that features a great example of accentuating the positive. Love, Oracle Jai

    9. Samuele says:

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      That is so true and thank you for discovering that and making your life fun. Love, Oracle Jai

    10. Tart says:

      I appreciate that your blog is full of interesting comments as well as your replies. They offer additional learning and giving. Thanks for the respect given to the topic and each other. I see many find the material a puzzlement, for it is so different that what we have learned so far in our lives. It is also amazing that Oracle Jai replies to every comment. We can all agree on accentuating the positive and eliminate the negative. We do need to concentrate on what we feel, think and say and learn to make it positive.

      Thank you for your comment and please take your advise. Changing the world, eliminating wrong, bad and ugly is personal. Making everything right, good and beneficial is our job now. Love, Oracle Jai

    11. black says:

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      Thank you for your comment and keep coming back. I really have only a few things to say but lots of topics to say them in. Love, Oracle Jai

    12. 新聞 says:

      “Nice Post. It’s really a very good article. I noticed all your important points in order to accentuate the positive. It is from an old American song by Johnny Mercer. The whole song is brilliant and quite right for quoting. Thanks"

      Nice comment and yes it is one of my old favorites. I always wondered what "Don't mess with mister in between."  means. Do you have a clue? Love, Oracle Jai

    13. Augusta says:

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      Thanks for your remarkable comment and please read them all. The exposure will do a world of good for you. Love, Oracle Jai

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      Thanks again, Habibi, you have read a lot of my posts and always have a good word to say. I am glad to have such a dedicated transformer. Love, Oracle Jai

    15. Mostyn says:

      The American dream is popularized in countless rags-to-riches stories and in the pictures of the good life in advertising and on TV shows. How would you like to write down an article and then earn money from it forever? President Adams expressed 'the dream of a land in which life needs to be better, richer, and fuller for every man, with opportunities according to his abilities and achievement's.

      It is every man's dream, to have a lot of wealth in this land of promise. Unfortunately we keep having children, so every man's dream will fail to be realized, overpopulation is killing the world. Men have a lot of wars but do not kill enough people to make a difference. If men loved instead of thinking sex is love, it would definitely make a difference. Now if mothers would love themselves unconditionally and their child without conditions, we would all survive in paradise. Mothers it is up to you. Men are in charge of civilization, you are in charge of loving your child. Love, Oracle Jai

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      We love accentuating the positive. Thank you for you comments. Love, Oracle Jai

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      Thanks so much for the compliments and comment. I sure do like my readers. They leave a bit of themselves instead of just a thumbs up. It helps if you are already looking for the answer to life's major questions. Stuff is incidental and unimportant compared to love and having a joyous, healthy, prosperous life. Love, Oracle Jai

    18. Wixin says:

      The US and China have the technology to put up Wi-Fi surveillance of everyone, camouflaged by boxes, such as streetlights. This will put an end to privacy. One wonders why governments are so paranoid, depraved or aren't getting any, so they need to jerk-off by spying. They have always been into spying and now more than ever. Terrorism is so exciting, it is taught in the home by mom and dad. 1984 is here at last, a bit late but TG it made it. People fail to notice for they live desperate lives, focused on money and eating food that kills. Oh well. Your wisdom and clarity, unfortunately, will fall on dull minds, blind eyes and deaf ears. It is personal and I for one of a few will go out joyously.

      It was only a matter of time. Overpopulation is the major problem of the world and I think you are right. We will go out violently and we could have been so great. We can only change ourselves and get out of harms way. The violence this time is global. If Japan's atomic fallout doesn't kill us, our own governments will, for they are vying for global power and this huge population will just gobble up everything that sustains life. There is a peaceful solution. Love yourself and the Earth and find a paradise away from the insanity. Love, Oracle Jai

    19. Kristi says:

      Hello I am Kristi, its my first time making a comment anyplace on the web but when I read this post, I had to tell you that this is a brilliant post. The the double rainbow is for good luck. We are trained to fear everything, we need all the luck we can get. 

      Thanks Kristi. I watched a young mother with her toddler living in a cabin on the side of an avocado ranch. The entire side of the mountain was safe for miles and yet as we talked, she kept turning to her daughter, "Don't go there you will fall down and get a boo boo." The child did finally stumble on a twig and mother stomped angrily over to her child, yanked her up and said, "See I told you so." whereupon the child began to cry. It was her mother that hurt her, not the fall.

      Sweet Jesus we must stop being mothers like that! In fact we must stop being mothers, period, until we learn how to love us and keep us from harm. We need that double rainbow over all of our young ones. They need love and coddling. Our education fails to teach us to love us and the world. Thanks for commenting, please read more. Love, Oracle Jai 

    20. Van says:

      Thanks again for the blog post. Fantastic.

      Thanks for the comment and I hope you accentuate the positive in your thinking and speaking and eliminate the negative. Love Oracle, Jai

      • Wesley says:

        Hey! I just wanted to ask if you ever have any problems with hackers? My last blog (WordPress) was hacked and I ended up losing many months of hard work due to no back up. Do you have any methods to prevent hackers?

        I just write, others keep my site working. So far, so good. Find someone who knows how to keep a web site going correctly. Thanks for asking, Love Oracle Jai

    21. Staser says:

       This is one awesome article. I live in a big city which is not good. But I have to make a living. How do I make my life positive? I do try. Thanks Again. Will read on…

      Thank you for your compliment and question. Talk to yourself about being positive. Listen to what you say. Your cells want to communicate, in fact they do all the time. You live in a big city because you falsely think that is the only way to make a living. Think again and again. Where did you get this idea? Who does it serve? This whole blog is about getting free from our negative childhood training. Love, Oracle J


    22. Benny says:

      Loved the polar bear rolling around in the flowers. I thought they were floating on a piece of melting ice in the barren sea. Your style of setting up your posts really makes my day, along with the way you write. I feel like we are talking here in my home or there in those flowers. I wish more folks could become so enthusiastic and passionate concerning us and our hell bent beliefs, attitudes and actions to obliterate the earth. I really think if we could start a chain reaction to take out the universe, those rich and powerful would be thrilled. Keep up the fantastic work and I will keep coming back. Of course there is a lot to read but even the comments are valuable. 

      Love your comment and I must admit that polar bear is one of my favorites. I do spend a lot of time choosing the right symbolic pictures to go with each post. I will keep on writing if you keep on coming. It is a deal. Love, Oracle Jai

    23. więcej says:

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      Thumbs up for your great compliment. Love, Oracle J.

    24. Ruthie says:

      Hi, I really like your writing. You definitely have a way with words. I intend to keep in contact. You think about our issues and come to some very interesting conclusions. If you are right and I think you are, then everyone else is very wrong. We need to do something and I like your solution. I may as well love me, I cannot change the world.

      Now as you start to love yourself all negativity must go bye bye. Those negative words, thoughts and ideas become actions and they are killing the world and will kill all life, well, most of it. Just exchange them with positive words. For instance, "Then everyone else can change their outlook and I can change my world." Love, Oracle Jai


    25. Anonymous says:

      A big thank you for this article. I am going to read all of your posts.

      Eventually this will be a book. Thank you for taking the moment to tell me you liked it and please do read them all, they are all about you. Love Oracle Jai

    26. Zeto says:

      I really like and appreciate your blog post. Thanks for the inspiration.

      Thanks for commenting and liking the post. Wealth really does come to those who believe they are always wealthy, have what they want and lack nothing. Then all your cells make sure that they create that reality. After all the total of you is in charge of what happens in your life. Others and circumstances are under your control. If you wanted a different result, you would hang with different people in a different place. Love, Oracle Jai.

      • Alfredo says:

        Anyone could certainly discover your current enthusiasm within the work you produce. The arena desires even more fervent freelance writers such as yourself and like you, not  reluctant to say what they think. Always follow your heart.

        Thanks for taking the time to comment and yes act from love. Love, Oracle Jai

    27. Tom says:

      Hello! I feel very good and accentuating the positive in my life. I am also eliminating the negative. I have to support you for you tell it right. Thank you.

      And thank you for commenting and accentuating the positive. We need more like you. Love, Oracle Jai

    28. Anonymous says:

      Thanks so much for Accentuating the Positive. It is a really great blog post. I am going to read your new one. And I love the bear rolling around in the flowers.

      Me too and thank you for coming back to read other posts. Love, Oracle Jai

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        Thanks and I am glad I had at least three. Love Oracle Jai

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