• a society of friends of a different featherMarriage is for the birds. For humans it is a primitive passage of ownership and bondage. In early primitive tribes the chief or king owned everyone and since they were his property, he could do as he liked with them. Permission and payment were necessary to transfer ownership of a woman or child but men also. It was slavery and it is still practiced today. In fact most of the Africans dumped on the Caribbean Islands were bought or stolen from tribal kings.

    In Asia and Indochina, parents still sell their children to businessmen to be sold as slaves or arrange the marriages themselves for a better price. Today the tribal chiefs have been reduced to the patriarch of the church, government, businessmen and father of the family. Married people sign a pact to wave their rights as an individual and commit to the bond. Women take on the name of her new owner, which is then attached to his children.

    In most countries the women consent to be governed by their husband, as in primitive societies. The law protects his right to abuse her and his children. In the time of Jesus, women were stoned to death for infidelity but not men. Jesus apparently said, "Cast not the first stone, unless you are without sin." But whoever listened to Jesus? Certainly not the church and neither do we. 

    We are still primitive thinkers and stay within the confines of tradition. Girls and Boys, wake up! The law can apprehend the father and make him take financial responsibility for his children, without a marriage license. We must stop having children anyway. Look at the kind of people we produce!!! We need to learn to value ourselves first, then each other and then the plants, animals and the earth itself before we begin to have children again.

    The sole purpose for loyalty in human society is to have or be a slave that can be shamed, brutalized, tortured and killed without reprisals. All animals, including human beings, naturally copulate with an accepting partner of their specie. Rape is only known in humans and is apparently not limited to their own species. It is time to get back to the basics of love and friendship, with a much smaller group of humans. Love is the only reason to be with anyone, including us.

    32 Responses to MARRIAGE

    1. Pal says:

      Enjoyed looking through this, very good stuff. Not getting married makes a lot of sense. More women work now and have a productive life without having babies. Thank you. "While thou livest, keep a good tongue in thy head." by William Shakespeare.

      I guess that means be positive all the time. I am all for that. He should have added, love thyself above all else, then thou shall love all others. Love, Oracle Jai

    2. Shannon says:

      I can definitely see your extraordinary writing skills in all the articles you write. The world needs more writers, like you, to tell us like it is in the world today. Your writing is clever, funny and unpopular. We must act now and just how hard is it to laugh and have fun? Apparently in marriages after the first two years, very hard. After a few more, the marriage is over and the children are the casualties. We should become extinct!! More writers like you, unafraid to tell it as it is, need to be heard. I am going to share your blog with my friends and family. Thanks so much.

      Thanks for your extraordinary comment. We must love our children without conditions and teach them how to love themselves unconditionally or most of life on the planet will be extinct by the end of this century. Love, Oracle Jai

    3. Skye Rathbun says:

      Wonderful work! This is the type of information that should be shared around the net. Shame on Google for not positioning this post higher! Thanks, Skye Rathbun

      Thanks Skye, we must learn to love ourselves without conditions. Sex is fine for a moment of ecstasy but not for producing loveless children, who cause climate change, foul air and loss of healthy food to eat. If we continue at the present rate, we will all be dead by the end of this century and good riddance. Love, Oracle Jai

    4. Shena Boltz says:

      Magnificent items from you. I've read some of your articles before and you're simply too great on everyone of them. I actually like what you have said about marriage binding two people forever, giving up their rights to be independent. Like most contracts, it is usually broken. Your ideas are hard but your writing is entertaining and you still make it sensible. I can't wait to learn more from you. This is really a beautiful web site. Shena Boltz

      Thanks Shena. I appreciate a woman saying that we should be free. We need to be free even in childhood. Marriage is part of the childhood training, as well as the roles we will play when grown, king and servant girl. My mother was neither. I spent a lifetime doing away with those rules and roles as she did. It is all in the training. Unfortunately, she was never loved as a child, so she knew nothing about love. That I had to teach myself and this blog is about learning to love yourself. Please return, read more and comment. Love, Oracle Jai

    5. Eliana Herkstroeter says:

      This post on marriage is shocking and true. I never saw it like this but now that you point it out, we should just be with the person we want. Although the wedding is nice. Well I guess we could just throw a party. Would it be the same though? You absolutely come up with terrific posts. I appreciate you for sharing your wisdom and formidable knowledge.

      Thanks for the personal comment. Yes throw a party, lots of them. Potluck is nice that way you can have many. Remember that sex is for making babies, so if sex is what you want, at least one of you get fixed. Civilization makes a big fuss over sex, pretending it is a demonstration of love. It is anything but love and very unnecessary, the world is way over populated, killing all that sustains live on the planet.  Think about it. Love, Oracle Jai 

    6. Tory Laitinen says:

      Wherever you go, I'll follow…Congrats!!!!

      Thanks Tory, I will be here for quite a while longer. Love, Oracle Jai

    7. バーバリー アウトレット says:

      Excellent goods from you, man. I’ve understood your stuff previous to this post and you’re just extremely fantastic. I actually like what you’ve acquired here. I really like what you’re stating and the way in which you say it. You make it enjoyable and you still care for to keep it wise. I am anxious to read much more from you. This is actually a terrific website. バーバリー アウトレット

      It is nice that you have so many compliments after reading my post on Marriage. I was a bit nervous to put it up for it is so un-mainstream. When we have rules on anything, love is missing in all relationships. Loyalty belongs only to loving and caring for us. When we are ruled by loving ourselves, we safeguard everyone, all life and the world. Please come back. I love your comments. Love, Oracle Jai

    8. Illiquids says:

      Shallow superficial marriages are the norm based on sex and they rarely last. We don't have to get married to have sex or have a man provide food and shelter for us. We don't need children to occupy our life force anymore. We need to rid ourselves of the slave contract. We want our relationships to be about something far more important, like love, friendship and just plain fun.

      Well put Illiquids, you are on a roll. We really do control our own lives and only ours. Since civilization is not based on love, we need to train us to love ourselves. When we do, we care about being happy, healthy, safe and prosperous. We do as we think best, instead of what we are told to do without question, fear of retribution. Thank you for your thoughts on relationships and marriage. Love, Oracle Jai

    9. Luisa says:

      Helpful info. Lucky me I found your website by chance, and I'm shocked about your attitude on marriage. All around the world people have some sort of ceremony and exchange vows of loyalty, which you call bondage. You would suggest we just live together, have different partners and leave the relationship whenever we find a new love? Oh and of course do not have children. What is this world coming to?

      Hahahahah, this old world with the dominant species killing off all life is coming to an end. Our way of life leads to the death of all life. Of course, the earth will repair itself in several million years. The last great death was 250 million years ago and took several million years to accomplish. We are much faster and have taken only maybe a million to accomplish the same thing. Hurrah for us.

      I would keep the celebration party. Partying is fun and I do suggest we have all the fun we can get in the little time left. Raise a glass to extinction!! Pray it is just starvation, lack of water and oxygen instead of atomic war. Love, Oracle Jai

    10. Van says:

      I and my friends have been checking the excellent tactics located on your website for several months now. I know I have thanked you before but I am still so impressed I want to thank you again. My friends have had lengthily discussions about marriage, whether or not to get married, and if not how to deal with the families. Should we get fixed or take our chances. Your opinion and reasons overcame all our doubts.

      We really appreciate you taking the time to put these important guide lines in front of millions of individuals. People tire of being slaves to a "civilized" way of life. We need to remove the shackles and be free. 

      Wonderful and good that you have a group discussion to get many points of views. Thanks for the acknowledgment and removing your shackles. Love, Oracle Jai

    11. Lisi says:

      I take excellent pleasure in reading articles with quality content material. This write-up is 1 such writing that I can appreciate. I agree we should do away with marriage. People need to be free to love. I also agree we have got to stop having children. We do not know how to raise them. At least someone in the world is saying this on the internet and in public. Maintain up the excellent function.

      Thank you for the encouragement. When I got married before 1960, I told my husband to be that he could have as many women on the side as friends and lovers as long as he loved me and our home too. That was unheard of then and when he stopped loving me 22 years later, it was time for him to leave and I still loved him. Love is freedom not incarceration. My oldest daughter stopped loving me when she was around 38. I do not know why, she just stopped communicating. I still love her unconditionally, that means I love her even when she wants to live her life without me. Love is free and unconditional. Love, Oracle Jai 

    12. Gloria says:

      This is very interesting take on marriage. I never thought of it like this but you are correct. It is a matter of commitment, which you call bondage. Very skillfully written. I thought to get married soon and start a family and I read your post on Raising Us. I am going to read this entire blog before I make a commitment and I am looking forward to seeing more of your ideas. Also, I've shared your website in my social networks! Gloria

      Thanks, Gloria for a skillfully written comment. I hope you do read it all for it all pertains to how we really get what we want and not what we trained to get. Love, Oracle Jai

    13. Low says:

      A happy couple must learn to be giving, loving, serving and praising each other. The same goes for any relationship. Marriage is a great article and very informative. I wonder why this is so hard to understand and do. Even specialists worry and yet rarely understand this. You obviously do; so keep going forward with your writing. I am confident you will even have a bigger readers’ base than you have now.

      Why is everyone getting a divorce or staying together in an abusive and unloving relationship until death parts them? I want to know, so I can avoid both events.  Since I came upon this post and decided to read it, I discovered it to be absolutely useful and has kept me out of several abusive and unloving relationships. Still I am hoping for additional details, so I can find the loving, joyous relationships I want.

      Thanks for commenting and just keep reading the posts. All I write about is how to be joyous, healthy and prosperous and it starts with loving and cherishing yourself. Without that love and joy with yourself, the rest is just what you learned in your childhood and will fail to satisfy your thirst. Love, Oracle Jai

    14. Winifred says:

      I stumbled upon this site and I have discovered it to be positively beautiful and useful. It has helped me loads. I am going thru a divorce and after reading this blog on marriage, I can see where society and my childhood primed me to get married. It is like bondage or serfdom and I am outta here. I may be in charge of what happened but I am not guilty. Thank you so much and I am reading the rest of your blogs. I am an advocate for your lessons. I'm hoping to contribute & assist different customers from your insights. Great job.  Karen Toulmin

      Thanks Karen and spread the word. I constantly counsel against marriage and having babies. I am pro getting tubes tied for girls and balls snipped for boys. Sex is too popular to expect anyone to quit, however, it too is a product of society where men are on top and in charge. Women raise them in hordes, without love, so we get civilizations built on competition, dominance and servitude. To love is to be raised in unconditional love and trained to love yourself. This is Mother's job.

      Think about the words "without conditions". Watch how animals are raised. Lyons, tigers and bears do not smack their children into obedience, nor do they snarl or roar or give rewards (candy) to substitute for comfort and love. We will kill all life on the planet, if we fail to change the way our children are raised.  So if you fail to retrain yourself to love yourself without conditions, avoid having children. Love, Oracle Jai

    15. Jerald Scarlett says:

      Quite great day, this is the really superb site, I have delved into several of your posts and found them profound and funny. Nice way of writing and catching our attention. The whole site is a pleasure including the delightful forest sounds. We forget what it is like to be in nature, being in civilization and driving thru the country in a car. This site is well done and I know I will learn a lot more exciting concepts in your other articles. Thanks for this pleasing experience.

      Thank you Jerald for taking the time to comment. Civilization, along with the population, must shrink, so we actually live in the natural world. The trick will be to love what is positive and lose the negative because it exists only in our mind. The entire universe is positive, only the human species invented wrong, bad, ugly, superior, god, devil, fairies etc. in their fantasy of life. Try unconditional love, it is universal in all life but ours. Love, Oracle Jai 

    16. Google says:

      We really feel your site is actually really worth having a look.

      Glad you think so, Google. Love, Oracle Jai

    17. Mcconkey says:

      Very nice publish, I actually love this website and I love your comments on marriage. Love is what we want when we live together and all that paperwork, families interference, expectations, rules are for the birds and I doubt they would want them either. Keep up the good work.

      Thanks, All throughout our his'story, all over the world, men have had several women for sex and produced a lot of children. In civilization, the more wives a man had, the higher his status in society and, of course, more children. It is only recently that some countries made it illegal to have more than one wife. However, in most countries, men get divorced or just have lovers on the side. The problem is not sex but having all those children. Take precautions, get fixed. Do not add unloved children, who, in order to live, kill all that sustains life on the planet, Love, Oracle Jai

    18. Mack says:

      I was very pleased to search out this web-site. I wish to thank you for your time to share this wonderful teaching!! I am having fun with each little bit of it and I've you bookmarked to take a look at your new posts. Mack

      Thank you for your comment and I hope you come back for more fun. Love Oracle J.

    19. lustra says:

      Magnificent points altogether, you just gained a brand new reader. What would you suggest in regards to your post that you made some days ago? lustra

      I am unsure which post you refer to. Could you be more specific? Love, Oracle J

    20. Stefanie says:

      Hey very nice blog! I deal in weddings, setting them up, decorating the event, catering, what people wear, getting the photographer and a hundred other things. I read this post on marriage and had to laugh. I am perpetuating a primitive custom of ownership and slavery. As long as my clients never read your blog, I can make a living. I am saving up to live in Paradise. Cheers!

      Salute! Les us hope for an early retirement. Hahahahah Love, Oracle Jai

    21. Anonymous says:

      Hello! Would you mind if I share your blog with my Facebook group? There's a lot of people that I think would really appreciate your content. Please let me know. Many thanks

      Of course, I would be delighted. I have been busy with other things and could use some exposure. Love, Oracle Jai

    22. Stacey says:

      Marriages nowadays rarely last. It is not easy to live with someone. It used to be necessary to make it financially. Now it is better to live alone. But then there are the kids. Nothing seems to come easy these days. It’s hard just to make ends meet and it usually takes a long time. In many cases, too much time… So much that you might be ready to give up. I think you are right that love is missing. First we must love ourselves so we can love each other. That spreads to everyone including plants and the earth. I have never met such a person. Someone who loves everything. It is what we need but how to do it? I am skeptical that anyone even wants love. They have what does not work and seem satisfied with that. It will be interesting to see what will happen. Thanks for the insight.

      Thanks for the comment and you are right. Marriages do not last and if they do, it is because the woman gave up her right to be her. Love is what this world needs now. And we had better be quick about it. Love, Oracle Jai

    23. バーバリーブラックレーベル says:

      hello!, I like your writing so very much! I would like to keep up a correspondence. I require an expert in this house to resolve my problem. May be that is you! Looking forward to hearing from you.  バーバリーブラックレーベル

      Since you chose the post on Marriage we could talk about this, if that is what you had in mind. I obviously think we could live together as in a family without the payment, fees, documents etc. We decide to be loving friends that share our lives together for as long as it is good. Sex is for procreation and we are in a population crisis, so I suggest love and caring take another form and both partners in a relationship share the power and decisions. Tradition with the man at the head of the house must depart as a concept and custom. Thank you for your comments. Love, Oracle Jai

    24. Hulda says:

      Hi, I do think this is a great website. Money and freedom is the greatest way to change, may you be rich and continue to guide others.

      Funny that you chose marriage to put this comment. I assume you agree that marriage is bondage and being free would require one not to get married. Of course, I agree. I hope you also read that sex was for making babies not love. We also need to change our mind around money so I hope you also read the Money Game where we all lose. Onward, Michael. Really get a joyous, loving, healthy, prosperous life and while you are at it, save the natural world. Love, Oracle Jai

    25. birth says:

      Wow that was unusual. I just wrote an incredibly long comment but after I clicked submit my comment didn’t appear. Grrrr… well I’m not writing all that over again. Anyway, just wanted to say fantastic blog!

      Oracle J. Your comment is here, not in Organo Gold which is where I found it. The comments are collected under spam until I read and accept them. Sometimes that takes a few days. When a comment goes on a page instead of a post, I have to put it in a post. Please make your comments under the post you have just read, even if you are referring to all the posts. Oracle J.

    26. Daisy says:

      Ԝhy decide to get married only to put some tension in our lifetime later on on? ӏt'ѕ really a waste of time and our youth. We begin to think our major other is taking us for granted and they have found another special one. Children are also a waste of our youth. We do not know how to raise them and when grown, they do not want us around. All we did was increase the population, which we do not need. I would rather have fun and enjoy life doing, as you say, what I love doing. Thanks for your blog and wisdom.

      Thank you for your comment and, of course, I agree wholeheartedly with you. Get fixed and screw all you want without creating excess baggage or wasting 20 years of your youth raising another slave in the civilized marketplace. Love, Oracle Jai

    27. Jay Scro says:

      I love your website . You have incredible articles and comments. Thanks, Jay

      And thank you Jay for reading my posts and comments, Love Oracle J.

    28. Carlo says:

      Thanks lots for discussing marriage. Although your entire post is against everything anyone has ever taught about marriage, I concur with your conclusions. Even when divorce was forbidden, people broke the bonds and responsibilities of marriage. Men stoned wives to get another. Kings just killed their wives and took others. Priests have sex with nuns and choir boys. Monks fuck each other. Please, let us get rid of the whole marriage/religious thing, including the bands on sex, mixed or otherwise. We should all get fixed, live and love with whomever we choose.

      If people were rare and cherished themselves, selling, buying and treating them as slaves would be unheard of. Humans are disgusting and a disgrace to whatever god they believe in. If there is no God they are a disgrace to themselves. Die!!! I love your blog. You tell it as it is and encourages your readers to do the same.

      Although shocking, I concur with your conclusions. Thanks for telling it as it is. Love, Oracle Jai

    29. Corey says:

      I found this is a beneficial, interesting and knowledgeable post. Although I am married, I do think you are right. I would not get married again. Still it is possible to make this institution free and I intend to do so and have some fun. Many thanks for the efforts you have made in writing this essay and I loved the story on Raising Us. I am reading the rest of your posts for I suspect each one is enlightening. In fact your creative writing is exciting and entertaining.

      Thanks for your lovely comment. Keep reading we need to change everyone to a happily ever after life. Love, Oracle Jai


    30. strona says:

      I have been surfing online more than three hours today, yet I never found any interesting articles like yours. It is definitely worth my time to read here. In my view, if all web owners and bloggers made as good content as you do, the net will be much more useful than ever before. strona firmowa

      Thank you so much for your compliments. If people would think instead of react, this would be a more sensible, loving, caring place to live. Oracle J.

    31. Lorena says:

      Pretty site and nice sounds. Relaxing and thoughtful. Your writing skills are awesome. Marriage was really surprising since everyone takes it for granted that we should get married before sex. Now that having children has to be out, we have a lot of time to figure out what to do. Jobs are hard to find and so is money. Weird times are ahead. At least I know how to endure being joyous, healthy and prosper. Thanks.

      Thanks for your comment and you are right, weird times are ahead for everyone, except those who choose to retrain themselves to live in paradise. Love, Oracle Jai

    32. Oakley says:

      In general, I'm against bondage and discipline, features that are geared towards making it hard to enjoy life. I guess from reading your post, that includes marriage. Well, since most end in divorce and if not, one person never has a life, usually the wife but not always, you are right and I am staying well away. Lovers are responsible for the child however, and must teach the child to love itself. But then you cover that as well. Better Just not have kids and I am all for that as well. Thanks for the enlightening post.

      You are welcome and thanks for the comment. I find the educated middle class agree but the poor probably do not read and the filthy rich want more power and that means wives and children to do their bidding. Love, Oracle Jai

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