• Love is considered a new concept in human development even though we descended from animals that show love with their young as well as members of their tribe. They develop deep, life long bonds, even with the same sex, which we discount because we think they are inferior to us. They live in harmony with nature, the way things are and we live in competition and opposition to what is natural. Hmmmm.

    Our relationship with ourselves, others and nature is based on the false perceptions that things are superior or inferior, good or bad, right or wrong, win or lose. Even if we think these qualities exist, is it superior to destroy life, or preserve it? Is winning and losing better than living in peace and prosperity for all?   

    We think this human behavior is written in our DNA but our automatic instinctual behavior is learned from the way our trainers behaved in the society they inherited. Although free will is nearly impossible because of our automatic instinctual reactions, we can choose to change our automatic program.

    We alter our relationship with us first. That requires a smile and laughter. The more we smile the better we feel. When we feel angry, fearful or sad, look in the mirror and smile. Notice how good we look. Tell us we love us that we are wonderful. We are very impressed with what we did today. We thank our cells for showing us were we left our keys. Good job. We just keep complementing us and our cells all the time.

    Once we can make us smile and compliment us, then we can smile and compliment others. Our relationships begin to be happy ones because we learned to love our company and now we can love the company of others. We offer help. By listening to our Be Positive Audible Training the words tell our cells to make this effort automatic. 

    31 Responses to OUR RELATIONSHIPS

    1. Micah says:

      This is an excellent article. Our relationships never seem to last. At least we could stay friends. Too much strife and hurt feelings. Keep writing this kind of info on your blog. I'm really impressed by the beauty, sound and potency of such important subjects. You have done a great job. Il definitely will tell my friends to check it out. I am sure they will love it.

      Thanks for your excellent comment. The more the merrier. We must become positive, loving ourselves unconditionally to save the rest of the planet. Love, Oracle Jai

    2. Lynne says:

      Awfully illuminating thank you, I do think your current visitors will be very excited with so many great posts. I will be back to be sure to read them all and any new ones that you come up with. Continue the wonderful effort.

      Thank you for your interest. We need to save the world. When you return you will see my new post and in it are seven changes we need to make to get out of our insane civilization and into paradise. Love, Oracle Jai

    3. Addi says:

      I know all bloggers crave comments, and there are many places you can give and get flattery throughout the Facebook, Twitter, LinkedIn, etc.  However this site is unique in that the comments are an extension of the post itself and come with an intelligent response from the author. I would love to have this response on my blog as well. Our relationships are everything, especially when it is with us. This was every informative and insightful.

      I have been reading your blog for some time now and have only covered a little more than half of your posts. I love your presentation, the natural, soothing sounds. I feel such peace even reading that if we are not urgent with our joy in life we will all become extinct. Here I know enough of us will turn our world around and share our environment with all God's creatures.

      This is the day for giving thanks for those willing to spend a little time communicating their considered opinions. We really appreciate yours. Love, Oracle Jai

    4. cheap says:

      I keep coming to your site, it has such valuable information. I finally decided to watch all these video lessons. It took a few days but it was very valuable. Thank you for having them.

      Thank you for watching them. Yes they are the backup scientific information that is out there if anyone cared to find out why we are the way we are and what we can do about it. Thanks for being one who cares. Love, Oracle Jai

    5. Mitchell says:

      You could certainly see your skills in the work you write. The world hopes for even more passionate writers like you who are not afraid to say what they think. Our relationship with ourselves really sucks. I know I am very critical about everything I do. I am afraid of what people think about me all the time. It is a lot of pressure and stress. Now I know it came from my parents being critical of me but that was because their parents were critical of them so that is what they think is the way to survive.

      Believe me that stops now. I am looking in the mirror and complimenting me and telling me how wonderful I am. I need to lose weight and now I know why so I will tell myself I look great, strong and healthy. A whole new me is about to emerge all thanks to you opening my eyes to see how it is. Mitchell

      Thanks, Mitchell, I could not have said it as well as you. We must change and it is personal. Thanks for expressing yourself, Love, Oracle Jai

    6. Kris says:

      I and my pals were studying the good thoughts on your web site I decided to expressed our respect to the web site owner for them. These women appeared to be thrilled to study your ideas on relationships and marriage and have seriously been making the most of your ideas.Millions of individuals are really desperate to know this stuff. My personal gratitude for making this information available to everyone.

      Thanks Kris for you acknowledgment. I am working to make a change in each and every individual for we make our own future and we need to change the direction of the future we are creating at this moment. Love, Oracle Jai

    7. deep says:

      I’m more than happy to uncover this page. I want to to thank you for your time making this wonderful website!! I definitely savored every bit of all of it and especially this one on relationships. It is funny but men expect love without giving it back. They expect the woman to serve him and be interested in his life and what he does outside of the home but fails to be interested in her life of kids, cleaning, cooking, shopping, maintaining his home. He comes home and watches his sports on TV. He spends little time with his children and then when they are grown he wonders why they do not love him. That relationship is one of lord and servant.

      It is no wonder we are going to become extinct and should!!! Even the lowliest animal on the earth is not so stupid and careless. We should emulate wolves. I really come here to think and make my life better. You need a bigger following. No one says it like you do. I have told my family and friends to look you up. I know most do not because they do not want to know. They would rather watch the news. Stuff that is so irrelevant as to be nonsense. Thoroughly disgusted.

      Good. It is time somebody got disgusted. Now take that energy and turn it inward to loving you. You are not disgusting, you are wonderful, smart and will make a different life. You are gratefully unlike the others. Once you begin to cherish yourself, you will find others like you worthy of being also cherished. Soon even those who are now unworthy will gain respect and love in your eyes because it is more important that you feel great and full of love than disgusted because others live such lame lives. Love, Oracle Jai

    8. Wariner says:

      I like what you guys are up also. Such smart work and reporting! Our relationships really need help. And you are right love is missing all over the world. Men are taught not to love each other or they are labeled gay, unnatural. You have two male lions loving one another and I'll bet there are people who think that is unnatural as well. Love is natural for everyone and everything. We have so many rules of behavior, so much suppression. No wonder we are the only animal that commits suicide. I blame the church for a lot of our unnatural behavior. Men can not even show love for children or they will be thought unnatural as well. Keep up the superb works guys I have incorporated you guys to my blogroll. I think it will improve the value of my site :)

      Thanks for your comment and of course when there are too many people, they turn on each other like rats in a cage. We have been overpopulated since before we learned to farm and keep animals in pens for food. That came about because we had over populated our food source. We definitely must get back to being natural, eating natural food from nature's seeds. As it is the earth will be better off without us, so let us become a benefit and save the world by limiting our species to what nature provides for all its critters and reintroduce love as our driving force. Love, Oracle Jai

    9. Brech says:

      This was actually a very high quality post. Shows you took a lot of time thinking this through and made it short so we get the point. Your blogs are genuine and fantastic. Actually just what I needed. Without really knowing what would help me, I have been searching for this sort of information probably all my life. I get it that the first relationship is with me. Makes sense and all the difference in the world. Thanks so much.

      You are welcome and please continue to read and comment. We love the interaction and the compliments. The first and most important relationship is with us. Love, Oracle Jai

    10. ErnieCollr says:

      b-positive-now.com is amazing, i visit it everyday. We really need to improve ourselves so we can have loving relationships with everyone, not just with ourselves. Thanks for this insight. I always thought they had to do something to earn my love. Live and learn.

      If we all could see this so clearly, we would be able to save the planet and the life that still exists. Thanks for commenting and getting it. Now make it so. Love, Oracle Jai

    11. Google says:

      The information and facts talked about in the post are some of the most beneficial I have come across yet. Everything is a relationship as you said and it all comes down to our relationship with ourselves. We all need to rethink what we are doing to the planet and that comes from what we are doing to ourselves. Great blog.

      Thanks for your comment. You made a connection I had yet to make. If we are destroying what gives us life, our relationship with the earth, you are right it is a reflection of our relationship with us. We are destroying ourselves personally by denying our right to be respected, noticed, appreciated and fostered so we all live in harmony and abundance. We deny ourselves the very things we deny plants and animals, the right to live. Wow. I love this work and love readers who push me even further into the truth and reality. Thanks so much, Love, Oracle Jai

    12. Scheeman says:

      This website is really a great means for getting all of the data we  wanted about our relationships and didn’t know who to ask. I never thought of having a relationship with me. But of course we do. I talk to myself all the time in my head. I can think of things that make me happy or sad. I am going to start taking better care of me. Thanks, more people need to come here and benefit.

      Thank you so much for what you said. It is true and we do need to take better care of ourselves. We need to love our company, love doing things that make us happy. We are the most important relationship we will ever have. Love, Oracle Jai


    13. Rey says:

      Good post however , I was wondering if you could write a little more on this subject? I'd be very thankful if you could elaborate a little bit further. Kudos! Rey

      Our relationships with ourselves, others, including animals, plants, birds, fish etc depends on our parents relationship with each other and us. If they are based on anything other than unconditional love and respect, we will become extinct by the end of this century because we will continue to be as we are and do what we do best, eliminate all life for our desperate search for love and respect. Oil companies are tearing up the forests looking for oil but that would stop if they were happy, in love, knew plants were just like humans only green, leafy and planted. Read The Only Solution. Did you have something specific in mind? Thanks for commenting, Rey, Love, Oracle Jai

    14. German says:

      Hurrah! At last I got a website from where I know how to really get useful information concerning my relationships. Everything is a relationship, including how we are with plants and clouds. After reading this post i know what happens in my relationships with people as well. I do want to study and learn more.

      Great and you are right. Who you are, who you think you are is worth studying and that will be found in the results you cause in your life and you cause it all. Is it pleasant and wonderful or dull or antagonistic or etc. Keep reading and you will learn what you can do about those results. Love, Oracle Jai

    15. Ame says:

      I wondered about my relationships and why they all seem uninteresting. Nothing seems to excite me, not my work, my friends, my family. I feel empty. I learn some excellent stuff here and need to look to me. It is my choice, even if it is unconscious. I picked dull people, jobs, family. I guess I will take your advise and love myself dull as I am and looking for some excitement. I sure hope you are right that will change me, once I love me I will stop looking for it and it will be there. I am definitely coming back for more. How did you ever create such a magnificent informative web site?

      Read my post Think and Make Sense. If you do the same your life will become exciting. After all we are the most fascinating subject on earth! Love, Oracle Jai

    16. Wesley says:

      Thanks, I have recently been searching for information on this subject for ages and yours is the best I've found out so far.  However, I would like to understand women better. Could you write a blog on women? Wesley

      Thanks Wesley, yes I will and do one even better and include men as well. if you would like to be contacted when the next post goes up, please register at the bottom of the left column. Love, Oracle J.

    17. Luther says:

      Quality content iѕ crucial tο interest the people so they pay a quick ѵisit and come back. That's what this web site provides. *Luther*

      Thank you so much, Luther. We really appreciate compliments. Love, Oracle J.

    18. Anibal says:

      Superb, what a webpage it is! This web site presents valuable information to us, especially for our relationships of all kinds. Love is where it is at. I get it that nothing is wrong, bad or ugly, intellectually but it is really difficult to remember that when others do something to hurt us, even on a large scale such as governments killing their own people. I am having a lot of trouble getting that to be perfect, even if it is the result of what caused the government to kill its own. Any suggestions?

      Anibal, accept that we are part of the entire universe which is perfect and has been in existence for 14 and a half billion years. Humans got the idea they are from an alien universe, came thru the barrier in space ships with the sole purpose of destroying Earth, so they could have our gold.

      Unfortunately this alien animal, we call humans, will destroy all life, including their own, if they refuse to change their automatic behavioral negative training. No one seems to get it. Dead is dead. Plants, animals, fish, birds, insects and even aliens die. I hope you can come face to face with death by suffocation and starvation, if you remain negative about anything. Think positive and your actions and their results will be positive. Remove that alien shell!! Love, Oracle Jai

    19. Darline says:

      My partner and I love reading your blog. Our Relationships is really excellent We do tend to go into the dominant and subservient mode, whether it is heterosexual, homosexuals, just friends or family. Do you folks offer the skill to write guest posts? Again, amazing work!

      I assume you are asking if I write for other sites. I have not so far because I have not been asked to. If you have a proposal, please contact me on the contact page.  Thanks for asking, Love, Oracle Jai

    20. Rosaline says:

      I wanted to thank you for this good read!! I absolutely loved every little bit of it. I have been in and out of so many friendships. Either they misbehave or I do. I choose men who insult me and are mean to me. I seem to be attractive to them. Now I know why and I have begun looking at myself in the mirror and telling me that I am wonderful and will be good to me always. I am reading all your blogs for I want people around who love me and to do that I found out from you that I've got to love me first. Thanks for this.

      Thanks for your good comment. You are on the right track to live in paradise, the castle and happily ever after. It all comes with the ability to love ourselves totally, unconditionally and cherish us enough to give the very best.  (which has nothing to do with money or what money will buy) Love, Oracle Jai

    21. strona firmowa says:

      Thank you for the well written blogs. Look forward to more great articles from you! By the way, how can we keep up a correspondence? strona firmowa

      I love corresponding to your comments, Strona. Of course it took me a while, since we have been getting the site back together again. Just continue to comment on the posts of your choice and say what you want. I have to go over each comment and OK it before it gets published.Looking forward to more of your thoughts. Love, Oracle J.

    22. Stephany says:

      I want to show my affection for your generosity supporting persons who require assistance with this important situation. Your special commitment to passing the solution around is particularly beneficial and has frequently empowered guys much like me to arrive at their objectives. Your new insightful useful information means a lot to a person like me and still more to my colleagues. Many thanks; from each one of us.

      Thank you for the comment. It is my intent and work to get the message out to everyone. Time is short and we need to become positive so the remainder of our lives and the future lives in peace in harmony with the natural Universal forces and all life on the planet. Love, Oracle Jai

    23. Konsorcjum says:

      I like what you guys are up to. Such clever work and reporting! Carry on the excellent works guys I've incorporated you into my blogroll. I think it'll improve the value of my website :) Konsorcjum

      The more we spread the word the sooner we will have enough people to change the world. Thanks, Love, Oracle J.

    24. Fiesel says:

      hello there and thank you for your info – I’ve certainly picked up something new from right here. I have a girlfriend and wonder if I am too young to get married. I read what you said about marriage but our country frowns on couples just living together without being married. Well I’m adding this RSS to my email and am looking forward to much more of your fascinating content. Please comment more on our relationships. You barely scratched the surface.

      Thank you for your comment and indeed I will talk more about our relationships. Of course all my blogs are about relationships. Love, Oracle Jai


    25. John Lewis says:

      May I simply say what a comfort to find someone who really knows what they're talking about over the internet. You actually understand how to bring a problem to light and make it important. More people must check this out and understand this side of your story. I was surprised that you definitely have the gift.

      Thanks for your comment for you really know a good thing when you read it. Hahahaha. Love, Oracle Jai

    26. black says:

      I have been thinking about the family structure all over the world. Traditionally the man is the head of the household and the women are almost subservient (I don’t like to use that word but I can’t seem to find another word that would be appropriate). The new age family dynamic Is where the husband and wives are equals and no one person is below anyone else. But still we are in a lot of trouble. We need something else. I guess it is love in the social structure. Black

      Well, there you have it. We personify different aspects of one. We need to be one in our mind, strong and supple, creative and receptive. As long as each person, male or female loves themselves and embraces totality then the family is love driven and children are brought up in unconditional love. This seems like an unreachable ideal but it is already inside each of us. Our childhood conditioning blocked our natural way of being. We will become extinct unless we get back to loving ourselves being a total person. If we all do this the birth rate will fall below the death rate and we will love all the earth including other species. Thank you for your inquiry. We need more people like you. Love, Oracle Jai

    27. Allison says:

      You are so awesome! I don't suppose I have read a single thing like that before. So nice to discover someone with some original thoughts on this issue. Seriously..How often do we think about our relationship with ourselves? We are so willing to look for what is wrong and blame someone, even us. Thank you for starting this whole blog up. This web site is something that's needed on the web, someone with a lot of truth, wisdom, originality and humor!

      Thanks for the awesome comment. With the correct perception we can see the truth and then we can change the negative into the positive. Thanks for starting, we need all the help we can get. Love, Oracle Jai

    28. Michael says:

      Greetings! Very useful advice in this particular article about our relationships! It's the little changes that will make the greatest changes. Love seems like a big commitment to me, however if that is what is necessary to change the world, I can do it.  Many thanks for sharing!

      And many thanks for sharing your thoughts with us and commitment to yourself. It is personal and you are the only one who can do it. Love, Oracle Jai

    29. William says:

      I wanted to thank you for this excellent read!! I certainly loved every bit of it. We do not even think about our relationships. They just seem to happen and it is great for a while and then goes sour and we are looking for another. Being married and having children does not change the pattern. You are amazing. I have got you saved as a favorite to look at new stuff you post…

      And I loved every bit of what you said. Now you are thinking about why you set yourself up with a never ending up and down. It is all up when you love yourself. Then you are not looking for love, something you make yourself, in another. Love, Oracle Jai

    30. Antonio says:

      I rarely drop remarks, however after browsing through a bunch of remarks here Our Relationships are false perceptions, based on good/bad. Be Positive Now has the answers and the wisdom. the site is very beautiful as well.. I actually do have a couple of questions for you if it's okay. this is the first site I have been on when the comments are to the point instead of spamy and not about before and after pictures. And, if you are posting at other sites, I'd like to follow you. Could you list of the complete urls of all your social pages like your Facebook page, twitter feed, or linkedin profile?

      I think I am a member of these social pages but haven't the time or inclination to post or follow up on them. They are the result of way too many people in the world and the need for the recognition, love and acceptance our parents or trainers failed to give us. You will just have to come here for that is all there is. Love, Oracle Jai

    31. Burton says:

      This is an amazing article. You are right we do blame others for our misdeeds. Actually that is incorrect for our deeds are trained by our parents so they will keep us alive and kicking in our sick societies. Your latest is also great, in fact all your posts are great. Thanks a lot for sharing with us your web page.

      Thanks a lot for sharing your thoughts with the rest of us. I am glad you got it and please read all my blogs as if our lives depended on it for they do. Love, Oracle Jai

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