PUNISHMENTS AND REWARDS

  •    Only a few children in the whole world are trained with joyous, unconditional love, which results in joyous, loving, healthy and prosperous adults. We prefer to train our children using punishments and rewards, so they will fit in our overpopulated, insane, killing societies.

    We punish by isolating them from our love, protection and what they enjoy, in order to make them miserable and frightened, so they will submit to our demands. We reward our children with sweets, treats and toys, usually to get them to shut up and leave us alone instead of giving the love they so need. After we grow up, we still continue to reward and punish ourselves and others, which is detrimental to the peace, joy, health, love and prosperity for everyone, every living creature, the entire planet and us.

    A few ways we punish ourselves would be to set goals we fail to achieve; pick people to love that make us miserable; get fat, sick and hurt ourselves, break or lose things we cherish, work at a job we dislike and refuse what gives us pleasure. We trained to dislike ourselves, as our parents did, so we substitute sex for love, have too many children to punish, eat commercial food deliberately made to keep us unhealthy, drink too much alcohol, smoke cigarettes and look at our cell phones all the time, as the real world passes by.

    To have a healthy, rewarding, prosperous life, full of love and acceptance, we must change our impressed, instinctual, automatic image of ourselves and the world. We must know we really are perfect, good and always did the right thing in the correct place and time to create the life we trained to have, as did everyone else. Now we train us to have the life we want.

    We repeat our new mantra all the time, every day, until we manifest our life of love, health, joy and wealth automatically. "I am always safe, loved, happy, healthy, wealthy, live in Paradise and everything I think and do benefits me and everything else." We begin to cherish ourselves, choose loving people to associate with, have fun doing what we love to do, eat nourishing food, use our body in a healthy way, cherish our child, plants, animals and the earth itself. The future of the planet depends on us.

    35 Responses to PUNISHMENTS AND REWARDS

    1. Shayna says:

      It's difficult to find experienced people about this subject, however, you tell it like it is.

      Everyone experiences punishment and rewards they just think it is normal. No one seems to notice that animals train their babies with love and acceptance. Life, having fun, loving each other and being safe and healthy are what we need to focus on. Of course, that means leaving civilization, accepting that men and women are equal, having only one child, if any, until the population is reduced to around a million world wide or less. That'll be the day. Love, Oracle Jai

    2. Curt says:

      Hi, just wanted to mention, I liked this blog post. It was helpful. Keep on posting! I live in a country where the norm is to marry, have a few children and leave for another husband or wife, have a few more kids and leave again. No one is ever satisfied and the children are confused at best. Our parents stayed together and had 9 kids, heavy on the punishments, not many rewards. Not a happy solution either. Here you are talking about not getting married or having kids. I like that solution the best.

      So do I. thanks for commenting, most people would not agree for commercial reasons. A smaller population makes for a smaller market, still we must do it or become extinct. Women are only used for sex, cleaning, cooking and minding the kids. The boys will be trained to compete and used for war or the manufacture of more goods. Even though the amount of babies each woman has is less, more women are having them. Extinction will be the case because society still places men in charge. We could have been so great. Love, Oracle Jai

    3. John says:

      I often believe that I have been such a disappointment. But, know that when God sees me he sees Jesus. But, here is what I often think about. If God sees Jesus who died for all of our sins, what does Jesus see when he looks down on earth. I try so very hard to be a good person and when I try really hard, I fail. But, when I run to Jesus to say I am sorry, he holds out his arms takes me into a tight hug and tells me it is okay. Go try again but, let me help you. Each day is better than the day before.

      Honey get to the real Jesus. You are hanging onto lies handed down by people who saw and still see religion as a business. Jesus understood we were trained to be solders and slaves. He believed in a just god and had the power to heal the sick. He was gentle, loving and wise so he acquired a large following. He actually died because the Romans feared an uprising of his followers and put him on the cross. We were told he died for our sins, which means we can keep on sinning for we are already forgiven. A few Hail Mary's and we can sin again.

      We hurt our babies, animals, plants, houses, rocks everything on the planet, in order to feel powerful because we were rendered helpless when punished by the very ones that should have loved and protected us. We have been doing this for thousands of years. It is old primitive human behavior and we remain helpless slaves and never grow up to take responsibility for what we cause.

      We continue to destroy everything good and natural like love, respect, friendship, peace and goodwill. Sweet Jesus. This has got to stop. Do you think Jesus wants you to worship him like some god, begging him to have mercy on your transgressions or be like him, a gentle healer that loved himself and everyone unconditionally?

      If Jesus stands for unconditional love then love yourself, otherwise he is nothing more than an apparition, something conjured up to remember we are a big disappointment to our parents, god the father, the son and the holy ghost, ah men. Notice mother is not mentioned. Did you ever wonder why? Mothers have been refused entrance to all religions since their conception. The church murdered over a million women because they used herbs to heal. Apparently only Jesus could heal. Women were taught they were not fit to rule or be a master in all religions and yet she is one who gives us our life and raises us to be slaves, masters or monsters. She trains all men to despise her, to keep her as a slave and rule the world.

      Women stop being mothers. You are terrible at it and no one appreciates you. It isn't worth it and you are deliberately getting your revenge by raising boys who continue to kill everything, including themselves. The universe, our earth and we are perfect. We already have everything to live a joyous, healthy, prosperous life. We need to recognize this and stop beating up our babies, killing our neighbors, destroying the forests, polluting our water, land, air and oceans. What a horrible animal we turned out to be with our big brain and opposable thumb. Money and the cell phone will not save our asses in the end, which is coming up sooner than we think. 

      Thanks so much for opening this topic. Very brave or desperate of you. Either one will do. Love, Oracle Jai  

    4. Murray says:

      This is What is really wrong with the world of humans. It's up to all of us to start loving everything, especially ourselves. I am really keen on reading this web site's posts and I have nearly read all of them. Are you through, for I have not seen a new one in a long time? I am sure you have more to say. All your thoughts are so pertinent to our lives. I am involved in employee's conflict with management. Could you write more on that? Thanks.

      The Workplace goes into some of that but yes it is a bigger subject. I will write more. Betrayal has a story about that very thing. Thanks, Oracle Jai

    5. Roosevelt Klayman says:

      Hey. I want to drop you a quick note to verbalize my gratitude. I have been watching your site for several days and I got a heap of excellent tips in how to make my life a whole lot better, in the posts as well as the comments and your replies. Just knowing I live in someone else's ideas of what the world is like and how to live makes a huge difference. I am going to do a lot of thinking about this.  Am I ready for paradise, you betcha. I also appreciate the way you have built your website with pictures of nature and especially the sounds. Roosevelt

      Thank you for commenting on how these posts affect your life. They are suppose to illicit a change for the better. Taking responsibility for what we cause is the first step along with loving and cherishing ourselves without conditions. Smile and laugh and it becomes so easy. Love, Oracle Jai

    6. Weer says:

      Children want actually very little. A very simple, multi functional, cheap toy is adequate to make a child happy. And as we get older, we occupy our time with toys. Eventually that toy is a game, then an ipod, eventually a mega cell phone, computer and a car. All the time, the child growing up is more unhappy, always looking for a better, bigger, more complicated and more expensive toy to satisfy his thirst, which, as you say, is love and being cherished.

      Are all your family members looking for the popular trend this year? Are you dressing in the right style, color, with the right ornaments? Don't be lacking what is essential to be popular. This article gives us what is missing to really satisfy ourselves. We need unconditional love. Is your family capable of love? They could be your best personal companion. I am going to pass the word and have my family read this post. Thanks for changing my life.

      You are welcome. It is good to know that I am getting thru to some people, actually most who comment tell me they are getting the information that will save our asses. Love, Oracle Jai

    7. Jinn says:

      I think families squabble a lot more about money than anything else these days.  Great information about treating children without punishments, scolding or rewards, except to squeeze, hug, kiss and love. I would think if the adults acted the same way to each other that is what the children would learn and we would have a loving society instead of the suspicious, squabbling one we do have. I wonder why this is not taught as the solution, the only solution, to all our problems. It seems so obvious and simple once I read it. 

      You are right. If love is the solution, then rules are not necessary. Well, a few are until the world gets it. Why is it that no one can see this? What are they afraid of? Everyone loves a lover, a happy person. We do not need shrinks, just love. They sit in different chairs and talk as if talking will solve anything. All specialists need to understand this. You must proceed in your writing. I am confident people will find this blog and change. It's my job to learn more about this, I will keep coming and read your posts again until I really feel the change.

      Thank you so much for your comment and confidence. Once we commit to living in love, we love ourseves first, so we know what it is like to be loved; then we automatically share that love with others, including the plants, animals, birds, fish etc. We begin to save the planet instead of destroying it. Love, Oracle Jai

    8. Cordell Steckley says:

      This is a good article with well-scripted, engaging subject material which is completely original and sensible. Much of the informative material you present on your posts are in agreement with my line of thinking. It is always a pleasure and I must say rare, to find others in agreement with my way of thinking. As you point out, that is because most people do not think or even consider the consequences of their actions, or where their thoughts and actions originated from. Thank you and keep pouring it on.

      Thank you for taking the time to comment. I agree with your views as well. I do need to qualify that while I think, I also investigate what scientists tell us about ourselves, our planet and universe. I check up on our account of history and find that most of what we learned at home, church, school and news is false, never happened and certainly not the way they said it happened. So who do you trust? Eventhough science is always changing, as new procedures and evidence come to light, at least they are constantly questioning and investigating reality, while everyone else is trying to prove their illusions are the truth. Love, Oracle Jai

    9. Miley says:

      Enjoyed reading this, very good stuff, appreciate it. I suppose punishments and rewards did not start with our primitive family. Families were small then, babies rarely made it to adulthood. It makes sense when civilization reared its dragon head and babies were protected that they lived and the families got too big. Only the first male could inherit the kingdom. The rest had to fend for themselves. "What the United States does best is to understand itself. What it does worst is understand others." by Carlos Fuentes.

      The United States, as in all countries, are only as good and smart as the people they govern. Since the people of the world fail to understand themselves it makes sense that no government understands anything let alone others. Carlos was a dreamer and not all that smart, but then who could we quote, since we are headed for extinction because of our stupid use of our great brain?

      Hopefully you will personally get on the road to enlightenment and not the Buddhist one. That road says that only a few will make it because they meditate all the time while others, less fortunate, grow their food, prepare and serve it to the one that will hopefully make it to Nirvana. In fact, I know of no religion that one could follow that will lead us out of our own feces and into the next century loving ourselves, all the life on the earth, the earth itself and the universe we are a part of. It is personal.

    10. Nakia says:

      Rarely do I come across a blog that’s both intelligent and amusing, and without a doubt, you are both. More men and women must come here and read what is really the case with us. Too many are saying the same old thing their grandparents said and they did not know what they were talking about. I'm very happy I came across this in my search for an answer to my problems, which are the same as everyone else's. Best wishes, Nakia Tabicas

      I am glad you liked what you read and now brighten up your day by smiling and laughing at absolutely nothing because you can. Your joy will change your world and ours. Love, Oracle Jai

    11. Beau says:

      Very interesting information! So this is why we hate one another, invade other countries, put down women, hurt our children, go to church and ask for forgiveness and go out to kill again. I wondered why we were such a terrible species. God certainly could not have created such a creature. Cats and dogs, birds and bees, even trees are better creations. Singing birds are a bigger delight and we put them in cages. Perfect, just what I was searching for! With all our technical skills and stuff, we blew it.

      I agree with you and glad you said it. It is a wonder with our huge brain and opposable thumb, we could be so dumb. Please keep coming back and give us some more of your thoughts. Love, Oracle Jai

    12. King says:

      Thank you for all of the enthusiasm you give all your blogs and such important information in such a handy form. I am particularly interested in punishments. We have laws, police to enforce them and courts to decide the fate and jails to hold criminals. Are you saying we need to get rid of all this? Let the criminals free and love them because they had unloving parents? I want to understand what we are to do with the problems fostered in society and homes. I love your site and intelligence. I know this is the place to get the wisdom and truth. Thanks

      Finally people are beginning to ask the questions that may just save the planet. The answer is that the laws, police, courts and jails are perfect and necessary given that overpopulation of unloving humans caused them to come into being. War, drugs, poisons, destroying the forests and making the air, water, soil and food unfit for life are also the perfect result of what we cause.

      And what is the cause? Too damn many uneducated, uncaring, unloving people desiring to control everything, including the natural forces of the universe, instead of living in harmony. What do the intelligent people like yourself, do about this? There is only one thing we can do and it is personal. We must be the person that loves and cherishes ourselves unconditionally. We will then stop causing the disaster humans have brought down upon the earth, find our paradise and love what is.

      When enough people do this, the society and way of being will change for all humans. It is called critical mass. You can either join or complain and blame. It is everyone's choice. I merely want people to know they are making a choice, whether they are aware of it or not. Thanks so much for asking. Love, Oracle Jai

    13. Rudi says:

      Hey man, This was a great web page for such a hard topic to speak about. I look forward to reading more excellent posts like this one. Thanks

      Thanks for dropping by and leaving a comment. Love, Oracle Jai

    14. Google says:

      I come to your site every day and learn something new and something you keep reminding us about. Punishments and rewards we do all the time. And you are right the rewards punish us as well. Are we ever good to ourselves?

      Our rewards are always detrimental. If we fail to love and cherish ourselves all the time, we never do. It is kind of all or nothing proposition. Of course we laugh and feel good sometimes, we even have fun. But take a good look at what makes us happy, laugh, and what we think is fun. You will be surprised. Thanks for coming and commenting, Love, Oracle Jai

      • Taylor says:

        Nuclear bombs from the coming third world war and toxic waste from the ocean floor will just add to our end, along with having destroyed the world's ability to make pure air, water and food. We are our government and we killed us. Hello!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

        So well put, I can only say spend the rest of the time we have in love with this life. I know a lot of people think they can screw up and be reborn to have another go at life on this planet or another. This is it folks. Look at the societies who believe they get another chance. They are all poor, sick and overcrowded, committing the same killing results every day. Live as if this is our only chance and fill it with as much love, joy, health and fun as possible. Thanks for the stab of reality in the midst of a world population that trains stupidity and doesn't give a damn. Love, Oracle Jai

    15. Cavaliero says:

      This is the right site for everyone who would like to find out about why we continue to harm ourselves. You know so much its almost tough to argue with you (not that I really will need to…HaHa). You definitely put a new spin on a subject that has been written about for decades. Great stuff, just excellent!

      Thanks for the comment, Cavaliero. You are right; people have been trying to discover what makes us tick for thousands of years. All the myths, fairytales and religions were suppose to be lessons for how we should be. They were made them up for a few to gain power over the people. We did not have science before, so now we know a lot more about what makes us tick tock. If we love us and what is, we can turn the world around. Only time will tell, if people really care about their future. Right now their training is to blame others instead of accepting their responsibility for what they cause. They just want to watch TV, cell phones and communicate on Facebook, until it is all over. Oracle Jai

    16. gifts says:

      This is a really good read for me, thank you!

      Thank you for your comment. This is a good read, explains our behavior. Please keep coming back to discover more why you are the way you are. Love, Oracle Jai

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      I would suggest writing for pleasure in the style most natural for you. Start cheap or free and go from there.  Love, Oracle Jai.

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      I would love to discuss this further with you. Thanks for your ability to see the lite. Love, Oracle Jai.

    19. www says:

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      Thank you so much for this wonderful compliment. We have just put up a place to register on the left side bar and I hope that you will continue to make comments on the post of your choice. Love, Oracle Jai.

    20. India says:

      I seldom comment, but I did search for how to raise a child and wound up here Punishment and Rewards. I agree totally to eliminate them and use love instead. I intend to start right now to be positive. Most of the people in the world were trained to be punished and we can see the terrible effect that had on the population. We must go for love and quickly.

      I have read many of the comments and I am impressed with the positive response you have had. Most sites have like or dislike, which means nothing. I actually do have a couple of questions for you. You keep saying it is personal and you are right. But if we change quietly and become healthy and joyous, is that really going to change the world? Don't we need to rally, march, wave banners, get arrested all for the cause?

      If you are writing on additional online social sites, I would like to follow everything fresh you have to post. Could you make a list of every one of your community sites like your twitter feed, Facebook page or LinkedIn profile?

      Thank your for your impressive comment. I too am pleased for the caliber of the people leaving comments. Read The Rebel for a response to having rallies, marches, banners etc. It makes headlines and negative reactions from those who fear change, especially those who feel insecure in their position. Those rich and powerful 10% are in a position to squash anything they cannot control. As for other community sites, I write here, so if you want what is fresh, then come back. I add good comments frequently. I also remove all that have a business adgenda. Love, Oracle Jai  

    21. Led says:

      I haven't checked in here for a while, since I thought it was getting boring, no new posts, but the last few posts are great quality, so I guess I'll add you back to my everyday bloglist. You deserve it my friend. Corporate Money Game is really scary but then it is understandable, when we read how we are raised with punishments and rewards that are detrimental to our health. Do we even have a chance at survival?

      That depends on each individual person. If enough of us decide to train ourselves to love and cherish ourselves, would we put up with nuclear war, atomic fall out, chem trails of aluminum, our GMO fake food covered in poison, removing the trees which give us oxygen and cause the rain, encouraging people to continue to make more babies that they cannot love, feed or care for?

      Would we put up with the Federal Reserve constantly printing fake money that is designed to destroy our economy, presidents that kill their people willing to die in war to give the president's corporations more money? And that is just in the US, which used to be the most powerful country in the world. It has already lost to the rich and powerful bankers, mafia and others. Love yourself and get an education. Look up the most rich and powerful people/families/groups in the world. There is only one reason to need that much money and it fails as a substitute for love. Love, Oracle Jai

    22. daniel says:

      This is really a great article…keep up the good work. Some of your comments are shocking knockouts. I'll be coming back !!!

      Thanks Daniel, I am sure you will and we hope you read it all, including the shocking comments. Love, Oracle Jai.

    23. Mindy says:

      I comment when I appreciate a post on a website or if I have something to valuable to contribute to the conversation. I became really passionate about eliminating Punishment and Rewards period. We did invent it and it is horrible. Of course, most people take them as natural. Disgusting and we never looked at the results, as if we caused them. We need to use love instead to raise our children or be a boss, teacher, president, even King or Queen. Be Positive Now is a marvelous blog. So many important issues all handled with awareness and wisdom. Are you posting on other sites like Facebook or LinkedIn ?

      I appreciate your passion and comment. We need to love, sweet love us first then it is natural and easy to love the earth, universe and everything in them. As for posting elsewhere, I have not the time nor inclination to do this. I have read the garbage most put up and answering them would consume too much of my time. Want more of my wisdom, come here. Thanks, Love, Oracle Jai

    24. Elisha says:

      Fantastic beat! I would like to follow you even as you amend your site. I read all the comments as well. The post was so helpful and accurate. We do keep punishing ourselves especially in our relationships, choosing people who will hurt us. Now I know if I love and cherish myself, I will choose people who are trustworthy. I am starting right now. Thank you so much. My future looks so much brighter.

      Thank you for coming and commenting. We need everyone to love themselves and save the world. Love, Oracle Jai

       

    25. Nick says:

      Get Unlimited Free Website Traffic To Your Website. Yes it's AdSense Safe:) Get it now for free. This is an awesome site. It is beautiful, easy to follow and read. I chose this one to see what it was like. I like the picture of a pint and a smoke. I was surprised at what I found. We reward ourselves with TV, popcorn, beer and a smoke and all are bad for us, well maybe the popped corn is OK. I was amazed that was how I was trained and I was bad a lot. My parents expected life to be hard and troublesome, so I became hard and troublesome. Never thought about what I would like to be if I had a choice. I always want more money, more beer, smokes and highs. Well, I'll be a monkey's uncle. You really need a bigger audience if you want to change the world.

      Monkey's uncle!!, first time I have heard that phrase in too many years to count. Thanks for coming by and making such a great comment. Punishments and Rewards does explain our behavior and it is easy to see and prove. So what happens now? Are you going to do something about you or not? I am curious, our fate depends on you. Love, Oracle Jai

    26. Cindy says:

      What's սp? just wanted to mention, ӏ liked this article. I also read the comments for there is inspiring information in them as well. Keep on posting! All my friends disapprove of almost everything, including me. Why do I put up with it? I think they are friends and I need to be polite or join in the negative gossip and accept the criticism. I am very uncomfortable with them but I do not know how to leave or stop it. My family is the same only we argue and then make up or not. I have a brother I have not spoken to in years. I tried several times but he just brushes me off. I am really unhappy.

      Thanks for your inspiring comment. We listen to this negative nonsense because we were trained to be punished and this is how we do it. Of course our family and the kind of friends we choose are negative, so no one is happy. Change. Retrain yourself. That is what  your brother did and it is absolutely necessary. Just stop being available for those vampires, who want to suck your blood. Dead themselves, they need you to give them some kind of life for a while and you need them for the same reason. Since you are aware of the harm you are causing yourself and them, it is time to stop, otherwise, it will take the earth several million years to recover, after we have sucked it dry and become extinct. Change your diet, suck only on happy food and smile. Bon appetite. Love, Oracle Jai 

    27. Tony says:

      I must say I a€™m impressed. Hardly ever do I ever encounter a blog that i€™s so important as this one. All that you write about is necessary to save the world and the species. You are so right on about punishments and rewards being all punishments. We think we are rewarding ourselves with a bit of sinful pleasure and that pleasure is always detrimental to our health and self esteem. Your concept is outstanding; the issue is one that not enough people are talking about intelligently. They may complain but that only keeps the problem alive and troublesome. I am completely satisfied that I stumbled upon the most significant blog of our time. 

      Wow, thank you for the comment and praise. I happen to agree with you and feel an urgency about it. We must become positive right now. We start by saying we are wonderful, beautiful and perfect and everything we do and encounter is great. At first it seems like lying but since everything is great, we begin to see how the universal law of cause and effect works perfectly. Love, Oracle Jai

    28. Latosha says:

      I love this site and come here often to capture some great thoughts and ideas. However, I did notice that the ends of your words at the margin are not all there. Is this normal?

      It turns out that when I use italics the top of the last letter gets cut off. Sorry but I use italics and color to let the reader know it is my response and not the reader's comment. Nothing to do about it. That is WordPress. Thanks for the comment. Love, Oracle Jai

    29. Holley says:

      Just wish to say your article Punishments and Rewards is surprising. I just never thought of being punished and getting rewards that defined my way of being as an adult. The clarity in your post is just spectacular. You are obviously an expert on people. I have begun to look at the ways that I punish myself and reward myself. It is truly amazing and my rewards are, as you say, detrimental to my health. I am so glad to have found your blog.

      Thanks you for taking the time to write a comment and such a nice one. Remember you are #1 and worth having a healthy, happy, loving, rich life doing what you love to do. Just rid yourself of both punishments and rewards. Love, Oracle Jai

    30. Cyrus says:

      When people have been injured due to someone else's negligence, they go to a lawyer and sue. This is the way it is and you say the fault lies in the people who are injured because they think they should be punished. Never heard of such a thing. Our courts, prisons, government even is based on punishment for crimes against who or whatever. If you are right, how does society work then?

      You guessed it. If we accept our responsibility for what we cause in our life, even if we are automatically creating the life we had no say in, no one is at fault. Fault, right, wrong and anything negative was made up to give power to a few who would control the rest. Our societies would have to change drastically if we decided to be the person who causes their own paradise. Drugs, Guns, Doctors, lawyers and Indian Chiefs would disappear. Our population would drop to a million world wide and civilizations would be ghosts towns. Thanks for writing a comment about what you think. Love, Oracle Jai

    31. Gwendolyn says:

      Great posts, so full of goodies. I’ve read several and you’re simply too great. I really like what you have written on Punishments and Rewards. First I was intrigued by the picture, a woman with a smoking cigarette and a mug of beer. I certainly related to what you said and the way in which in which you said it. You make perfect sense without making anyone wrong.

      We really are way off of being apart of the natural way. Now I know what happened and what I can do about it, I am going to read everything you have written. All your posts are bound to be great. I love this site, the sounds, pictures all making us aware of what we are missing and the comments are really great as well.

      Great comment and this is one of the more important posts to read so we understand what we do to us to make our life miserable and why. Simply training and no fault or one to blame. Smile and laugh and the world will smile back. Love Oracle Jai

    32. architect says:

      I want to express thanks to the writer for rescuing me from this problem. After reading Punishments and Rewards I realized there was a reason that my life was in the shits. I was ready to give up. I had tried everything, therapy, tapping, hypnosis, psychics and others. None really worked to solve my depression until I came across your blog and read this post, especially. Your primary know-how and kindness in touching all areas is priceless. I don't know what I would've done if I had not come across your website. It is peaceful, loving, natural. I was transported to a much finer place. I come here often now. 

      It's possible to, at this moment, relish my future. I am responsible but not at fault. I read the Blame Game. All my life I have thought I was wrong and people kept telling me so. I have read some of your posts and they are all helpful and boil down to one thing. Love myself, as I am, unconditionally. Thanks a lot for this impressive and sensible help. I will endorse your web blog to everyone. Everyone has got some negative stuff going on and this site can help.

      Thanks for that great comment. All one needs to do is love themselves enough to give themselves perfect health, keep out of harm's way, exploring the natural world and perfect forces that manage the universe. When that happens all negativity disappears and only joy, love, health and prosperity appear. Love, Oracle Jai

    33. Annabelle says:

      Forex, online trading is the worst and the greatest financial industry in the whole world of economic systems. There is a possibility to make a fortune for a very few. The rest just loose their shirt. People who are addicted to gamboling their money and life away need to read your post on punishments and rewards. They need to learn that, even though, they were trained to lose, they can change and have the life they want. I really appreciate this article.

      Thanks Annabelle, I always appreciate your comments. I did try trading on the stock mkt. and before I put any money down, I found out that those who played, punished themselves again and again. Our parents were unloved, therefore unable to love us. It is up to us to love ourselves. Love, Oracle Jai

    34. Issac says:

      I think this is the best looking website I have ever come across. I read a few of your blogs and they are really well written, especially Punishments and Rewards. It explains everything. We are so fucked up. I am going to read all your posts. I know all will be just as revealing. Superb writing. I am so fortunate to have found this blog. Issac

      And I am fortunate that you chose to make a comment. Yes we are fucked up. So be happy, get fixed and survive. Love, Oracle Jai

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