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    We have definite opinions about who we are, what we look like, what we like and dislike, what we want and if we will get it or not. We have readymade excuses or reasons for failing at something or succeeding. Our attitude, what we do and accomplish is predetermined by our early training and we depend on the results. In other words we trust us to produce the same results, regardless of the circumstances. We feel safe because we know how to handle the results. The opinions of others are irrelevant.

    Artists and writers have despised their work that others think is brilliant. If we were judged brilliant as a child we always judge ourselves as brilliant. I have known men who considered themselves retarded, when they were normal. All the proof and counseling in the world failed to change their mind.

    Against all odds, we continually trust us to deliver the results we expect because we always get them. When we start to replace our negative training with a positive training, we must trust our cells to get it. We persist reworking our thoughts and language so we get the life we want. Doubt works against success and trust works for us. All my posts keep coming back to our primary, automatic, training to be sure we understand how this training controls what we do, think and feel. We always prove we are right and we feel safe just being right even if right means being wrong most or all of the time. It is our MO.

    We can have everything we will ever need and want if we train for it. However, there is a catch. We must let go of the opinions we have, including our aspirations, goals, desires and wishes and what we have to do to get what we want and who to do it with. Use unspecific terms like I have perfect health, instead I will beat the cancer, diabetes etc. I am wealthy or prosperous instead of I have expensive cars, big houses in wealthy neighborhoods, a wall of awards, etc.

    There are loads of gurus out there that, for a price, will show us the way to make a million in real estate, futures, acting, fast food, in fact anything. Ignore them. Our cells know where our talents lie, what society will reward, so we can have fun, with people we love, doing what we love to do and prosper. We have trusted us to have the life that proves our childhood training was right, now trust us to prove we can have the life we are training for. It is time to fly, girls and boys, live free and happily ever after. 

    31 Responses to TRUST US

    1. Rufus says:

      Wow, that's what I was seeking for, right here at this webpage, thanks Oracle Jai for this information about trusting us. I never thought about it that way. I always have doubts about what I should be doing and you are right. I always get into the same lousy situation with people who are selfish and mean. I am going to read more about how I can change. There is hope for me yet!

      Thanks for finding what you were looking for. I tell people to lose the word hope and instead commit to the change you desire and that will happen. Love, Oracle Jai

    2. Flossie says:

      Do you have a spam problem on this blog; I also am a blogger, and I was curious about your situation; many of us have created some nice procedures and we are looking to swap solutions with others, please shoot me an e-mail if interested.

      I am too busy to email commentators and I have spam but it is welcome. I want to teach everyone to love us without conditions, including spamers. Love, Oracle Jai

    3. gagner says:

      I do accept that we need to trust ourselves. I can certainly trust me to put my foot in it. Now I have to trust me to keep my feet on the ground. Your posts are really convincing and can definitely work. Nonetheless, the posts are very short for most of us. Perhaps you could write more. Thank you for the post.

      Thank you for the comment. You will notice more is written about the post on the comments. They are like a continuous learning conversation. You have trusted yourself to put your foot where it does not belong, making a mess of things and now you can trust yourself to keep your feet with you. All it takes is a desire and commitment. Love, Oracle Jai

    4. Donte says:

      Way cool! It is funny that we trust our gut and create problems for ourselves. I am so glad you explained this. This is so true and now i can see that I must become positive but I still am confused as to how I can trust myself when I have been in trouble all my life. I well read more of your posts because I know you have some extremely valid points here! I appreciate you writing this blog and the site is very pretty. 

      Thank you for your trustworthy comment. As you begin to change from responding negatively most of the time to automatically responding positively, things will be strange. Go thru this strange adjustment for prospering in love, joy, health and having fun is worth it. Love, Oracle Jai

    5. Marco says:

      HeyaI I found this post really useful & it helped me understand more about me and everyone. I am going to do as you suggest and get a life!!! I hope to give something back and aid others like you aided me.

      Trust yourself to do the right, beneficial thing for everyone including the earth always and you will. Love, Oracle Jai

    6. lara says:

      Well worded. Interesting that we doubt if we are right, but trust our instincts to do the right thing. And then when we get hurt, we are afraid to trust us. So, in fact, we are doing the same thing we were taught to do. This bares more thought and inspection. I’ll check back often for there is much to learn here and I will recommend my friends and family about your website.

      ļ¼© never seem to take the time to understand more about me and see if there is a way I can do something different. I think I do not have the guts to do something different with my life. Some people seem to be up for anything and fear nothing. I'm envious of movie stars. Their job requires them to learn many things, take many chances. I tell myself to do or not to do and then I give in. I wish I had the strength of my convictions.

      Trust yourself, You are doing and being exactly as your parents. You are a combination of both of them and their relationship with each other and with you. If they caved in, so will you. If they stood firm, so will you. If one stood firm and one caved in you will make a choice, when very young, which suited you better when you were trying to get them to love and cherish you.

      You can change and you will have to commit 100% to having a life you love and feeling really good about everything you do. Love who you are right now, wishy washy, envious, fearful, etc. When it is wonderful being that way, you will no longer be that way. You will be firm in loving unconditionally and being safe, in love, joy, health and prosper. Listen to the recordings. They do help. Love, Oracle Jai

    7. Anthony says:

      To have a lot of friends, we must be unselfish, so if things go wrong they have only themselves to blame. We need to have a grateful heart, which will make the world considerable better. I actually spent a good deal of time exploring posts about being selfish and grateful. Recently, many college students have opened their own websites and have discovered more about themselves and therefore understand more about others. People's stress is usually so heavy they never take the time to educate themselves about what can be done to avoid stress. On this site that issue is handled and resolved. Now if only the world would read it, we really would have a better world.

      Let me clear up your first sentence. It is completely unimportant to have any friends. Being unselfish is what everyone preaches and keeps people negative and the world as it is, going to hell in a hand bag. Once we love, cherish and trust ourselves completely, the most selfish act I can think of, we can shed love and the light on everything else. That is really something to be grateful for. Love, Oracle Jai

    8. Scott says:

      Hi there, I just found this site and it is really informative. I will keep coming back. Everyone will benefit from your writing. I know we live in doubt all the time. Need to trust us. Cheers! Scott

      Thanks for your compliment, Scott. I do desire that you come back and continue to get informed. Love, Oracle Jai

    9. Less says:

      May I simply just say what a relief to find a person Blogging us with knowledge about what they are talking about. We have always trusted us to do what we were trained to do and did not know that. We doubt, hem and haw, and usually fuck up. You really understand how to bring a problem to light so we can make sense of it and use it to better ourselves. More people ought to check this out and understand what you say and I am going to tell my friends to come to this site and learn a thing or two about themselves. You certainly have the gift of gab.

      I had a friend that used to say that. I talk a lot but then so did he. Anyway, thanks for the comment and bring them all on down. The more the merrier. We must teach us to love us all the time, warts and all. Love, Oracle Jai

    10. Chong Bruess says:

      I was excited to uncover this website. I want to to thank you for writing this blog. It is wonderful!! I definitely liked every bit of it and I have you bookmarked to check out new stuff on your web site. There is a lot to read here. I will be busy trying to catch up. When we begin to train ourselves to be more positive, we are trusting ourselves to repeat the negative life we want to change, Right? 

      Absolutely. That is why we need to be dedicated. How many times in your life did you say, I am going to do this, say quit smoking, stop slouching, pay closer attention, lose weight, exercise, whatever and did not do it? Your cells know the difference between a commitment and a wish. You need to show them this time you mean business. It is a done deal, period! If you slack off because it is what others expect, you lost and need to work harder. We Just keep telling ourselves I am happy, see I am smiling, laughing, I am happy, in love. Look in the mirror, make it so.

      The transition period will seem bizarre and you will do things differently, just go ahead and do whatever you are doing and study the results. All results are positive, we were just trained to see them negatively. You became as your parents wanted you to be, which was to prove their interpretation of life was correct. If that meant you were a pain in the ass that was beneficial to them because that is what they expected. They asked for a wish they never intended to have fulfilled. You copied them. Keep at it and you will achieve a happy ever-after life. Love, Oracle Jai

    11. Evie says:

      I don't even know how I stopped up here, but I thought this put up was great. You are new to me but you write excellently. Your stuff is so different from the ordinary blah blah. Whoever you are you are going to be famous. Your idea about us always trusting ourselves to do the right thing is really true even if that thing is to be hurt or hurt someone else. You really know what we are like. I am going to read everything, for I want what you are offering, a great life. Thanks for being here. Cheers!

      Thank you for your comment and compliments. If you retrain your automatic response programming you will have everything that is really important to having a great life and you will be apart of the crowd that is going to save the world from the rotten apples. Love, Oracle Jai

    12. Stanley says:

      Good web site you have here.. It’s difficult to find good quality writing like yours nowadays. I honestly appreciate people like you! The site is restful and exciting, nearly impossible to leave. I think my problem is that I do not trust myself. I doubt all my decisions. How can I change that?

      Of course that is not true, just erroneous thinking. You were trained to doubt everything and so your decisions were always questionable. Stop that. When you make a decision, it is final and go with it. In the beginning it may shock you but when your trillions of cells get it that when you make a decision you believe it is the best decision for you and all else, you will make sure it is. Stand firm, no more wishy washy doubts. they are detrimental to your joy, health and happily ever after life. Love, Oracle Jai

    13. Bridget says:

      Hi, I read a lot of your blog posts and keep coming because your truth of who we are is amazing. There is so much you offer here. I finished Trust Us and if I have this right, you are saying that I create my own problems perfectly according to the way I was raised. I own a blog too and I was just curious if you get a lot of spam feedback? If so how do you protect against it, any plugin or anything you can advise? I get so much lately it's driving me mad, so any assistance is very much appreciated. Is this effect a part of my training?

      Absolutely. Spam is like a thunder storm. We have no control over the storm only what we think, feel and do about it. I write for spam as well as you. If it bothers you find a host that has a solution. We use WordPress and there is a plugin we use to avoid ping backs, if that is what they are called. You can get rid of all the spam if you want to. Putting up with something that bothers you is something you learned was necessary and comes with life. Nonsense but then we are all trained with nonsense. Time to retrain to be positive. Love, Oracle Jai

    14. liep says:

      Great – I am certainly impressed with your site. I had no trouble navigating through all the tabs, as well as related information, which ended up being truly simple. I recently found what I hoped for, which I thought unusual. Easy to communicate with you as well. Excellent work.

      Thanks for the impressive comment. Please keep coming back and making more comments on the post you like. Please register at the bottom of the left bar so you know when I put up a new post. Love, Oracle Jai.

    15. Harnish says:

      Good day! I could have sworn I’ve been to this web site before but after looking at some of the posts I realized it’s new to me. Nonetheless, I’m definitely pleased I stumbled upon it and I’ll be bookmarking it and checking back frequently!

      When we knowingly trust ourselves we are always in the right place, in the right time benefiting everyone. Life just gets easier without doubts or worry. It is wonderful. Thanks for pointing this out to us. Love, Oracle Jai

    16. Charita Mcnolty says:

      I love this web-site. The more I read the better I like it. You have amazing stuff here. This article on trust us is wonderful. Why do we have so much doubt when we really can trust ourselves. I have a cold every year in December and according you that is a program I set up when I was a child. Well I can put a stop to that nonsense. thanks. Chairta

      Thank you Chairta for commenting and getting rid of your yearly cold. I have not had a cold since I was a child. Nice. Love, Oracle Jai

    17. Elke Karras says:

      Have you ever considered creating an e-book or guest authoring on other websites? I have a blog based upon on the same subjects you discuss and would really like to have you share some stories/information. I know my subscribers would appreciate your work. If you are even remotely interested, feel free to shoot me an email.

      I fail to see any difficulty here. Send them on over or make your comment with your ideas and we can have a conversation, which you can take to your web site. I will eventually make this site into a book. I probably will include the comments that have something specific to say that enhances the thread. Thanks for commenting, Love, Oracle Jai.

    18. Kala Mccright says:

      I have been browsing on-line greater than 3 hours nowadays, but I by no means discovered any attention-grabbing articles like yours. Your site is beautiful and of great value for everyone, including me. You are right I do trust myself to be wrong most of the time. I have a low self esteem but am getting better, working online at home. From reading even some of your blogs, I get it that I need not prove anything. I just need to love and respect me as I am. Then it is possible to change my life to have fun, get healthy and rich. If all site owners and bloggers made intelligent, well studied and thought out content like yours, we would build a different society based on love, peace and goodwill for everyone including the planet. The internet would be much more useful than it is now. Kala Mccright

      Thank you Kala for taking the time to comment. You are right to love and cherish yourself and all doors will open for you. You will benefit yourself and others when you smile and laugh all the time. You eat healthy foods and always experience perfect health. Glad you stopped by. Love, Oracle Jai

    19. hence says:

      I really was able to find this information useful. Thanks I have been having the same problems that all members described in their comments. I was naive before I read this and others of your posts. I agree with what you say and feel I should have realized this before. I know many people take advantage of someone so trusting. Thank you for that explanation why people are the way they are. This blog is always rich with truth and reality. Yet it is funny and very pleasant. All we need is love. That is so true. Blog comments are another way to get more great information about how to improve our situation. The articles are short but now they are enhanced. Thanks for great reading, looking and listening.

      Thank you for appreciating other people's effort to take the time as you did to appreciate what is being said here and why. Our lives are at stake, so it is important. Love, Oracle Jai

    20. Irving says:

      The whole blog is magnificent and your writing and the subjects are perfect. Everyone is sharing their opinions, which appear to be all positive. This is really great. The world needs your blog.

      Thanks for your magnificent comment and I do want the whole world to pay attention to what we are doing and why. Then we can change. Love, Oracle Jai

    21. Arthur says:

      Link exchange is nothing else but it is simply placing the other person's web site link on your page at appropriate place and other person will also do same in support of you.  GSA

      Thank you, Arthur for explaining this link exchange and you are the first to offer it. The other spammers just want a hit. If I were advertising I would probably say yes but as you can see, I just want to inform people as to what their ancestors, including their parents/trainers have done to themselves, their children and the future of the planet. This damage has been going on too long and we are ready to kill everything that gives and sustains life, if we fail to change.

      It is love I want to exchange. Unless you are selling the solution, how could I want the few who read this site and are willing to give it the dedication it takes, go to any other site selling stuff. Give me a good reason to send people to your site. Good choice of blogs, Trust Us. Love it, Oracle Jai

    22. Lisa says:

      This is a very exciting blog. The writer has a passion for life and being joyous and healthy. Trusting us is something we do without knowing it for we worry all the time about everything. We do not trust that we are doing the right and correct thing and I can see where that comes from in our childhood. Our gut feelings are causing a negative life. We must get positive and trust us to give us a positive life. Simple, true and brilliant!!! I am coming back often to read every thing you say.

      Thanks for a very excited comment. Please trust yourself to make the positive changes in your life. It is imperative now. We are nearly at the end of the time we have on earth if we do not change. Love, Oracle Jai.

    23. Esther says:

      I leave a response each time I like a post on a website or I have something to valuable to contribute to the conversation. It is triggered by the sincereness communicated in the article I read. And on this post TRUST US, We follow our gut feelings, now and we can train them to Be Positive Now. I actually have a couple of questions for you if you do not mind. Could it be just me or do some of these responses look like they are left by brain dead visitors? šŸ˜› And, if you are posting at other online sites, I'd like to follow you. Would you list all of your social sites like your twitter feed, Facebook page or LinkedIn profile?

      Thank you for your generous comment and question. Many of the comments are translations from another language and I do try to fix the English as best as I can keeping the comment intention. I do not have the time to post elsewhere. This is what you get. Love, Oracle Jai

    24. Wiler says:

      You are so interesting! I don’t suppose I’ve read through anything like this before. So good to find somebody with unique thoughts on this subject matter. Seriously.. thanks for starting this up. This website is one thing that’s needed on the web, someone with some originality! Most of us do trust that "gut feeling" but I bet no one thinks it is detrimental to our health and happiness, until we love us and believe we are all about health and happiness. Well, we have half the equation, we need to put the second half in and change the world to being positive.

      Said very well and to the point. I hope everyone who comes here reads the comments. I must add that statement to my talk. Thanks ever so much. Love, Oracle Jai

    25. jeremy says:

      I'm surprised you made a full post about this. You really think it's that important? Don't get me wrong, I love your stuff, but this is kind of crazy. Jeremy

      I reread my post and I had to agree. It was scattered as if I was making points that belonged in other conversations so I rewrote it. I know doubting destroys joy, health and prosperity so what saves it is trust. Trusting us is what we do and we always succeed in having the life we trained for, which usually is not what we really want. When you start to replace the negative with the positive, we must trust all our cells to get it that we are changing our automatic conditioning. Once they get it then we trust them to follow the new order. Thank you for asking the question. I hope I made the importance of trust much clearer. Love, Oracle Jai

    26. Garen says:

      Just discovered this site thru Google, what a pleasant shock! I never thought that I trust myself and that I cause my life to be as it is. There are some things I want to change and apparently it is up to me. thanks for this insight.

      You are welcome. Give what you want to change an 100% commitment and you will achieve what you desire. Love, Oracle Jai

    27. Alissa says:

      Hello, I desire to subscribe for this blog to take most up-to-date updates, so where can i do it please help out.

      There is a place on the side bar, however if you are looking for a notification as to when I put up a new post or comment, this program is not set up for that. Just keep coming back. Life can be so positive. Love, Oracle Jai

    28. Jamie says:

      Trust Us is an astounding article since we doubt if we are OK most of the time. Your clarity to how we always operate is simply spectacular. Obviously you are a professional in psychology. I intend to keep up to date with all your posts. Thank you a 1,000,000 and please keep up the rewarding work. Jamie 

      Wow that was very nice. My mother was a shrink, but we disagreed constantly on the subject. Talking about a problem keeps it in place. We need to replace our view of it, which changes the problem into a beneficial event. So all my memories of what I used to think of as bad, are now of great joy and benefit. Thanks for your compliment. Love, Oracle Jai

    29. lustra says:

      I love your blog.. very nice colors & theme. Did you make this website yourself or did you hire someone to do it for you? Please respond as I'm looking to construct my own blog and would like to know where u got this from. thanks a lot lustra do łazienek

      My blog and URL is with We use WordPress for the layout and everything else with many plugins. This was originally a template which has been altered. I am an artist and know a great deal about design, color, shape and form. I also understand our symbolic language so what you see and feel is actually how I want you to feel, despite any tendency to be critical, unhappy or suicidal. Thank you, Oracle Jai.

    30. Anonymous says:

      Do you use SEO software?

      I tried it with two companies and it was very unsuccessful and expensive. Thanks for commenting, Love Oracle J.

    31. bawsm says:

      I have been a lot of things in my life, including homeless. I have always had the lowest of friends. I was also a criminal. When I was at my lowest, I found myself in the hospital having survived a suicide attempt, in which my savoir nearly died. That person gave me life again and this time I made up my mind to change. I did not know how, so I went to AA. They asked me to accept that I was bad and would always fight it. After a while I noticed that it was true. There were people there who had to keep coming for years. That just was not good enough.

      I did get a job and with a little money got a used computer. I have been looking for answers every day. I finally found your blog and have been reading a post and then think about it. I practice what you say. You have the real answers that will work to remove the problems for good. This day I have the impression that I am honestly good!

      I can say that you honestly are and I am so glad you have had success. Once we love and cherish ourselves, we live in Paradise. Thanks for telling us and please come and tell us more of your success. Love, Oracle Jai

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